well once these guys were starring my at my butt and one guy said baby wanna come to my house I warmed up the bed for you what should I do I get 30dollars an hour
2007-03-17 17:21:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry I put a y on can't
2007-03-17 17:22:24 · update #1
Wow...
Seems quite rude to me. Bring a guy friend over, maybe more than one would be nice, and see how they react. Try to scare them or rather cause them to be jelous in order for them to leave you alone. If worse comes to worst, get the police on them.
You do work at a bar however, so things like this are to be expected I'm sure. It comes along with the work. Drunk men and beautiful women... they seem to have a similar outcome.
Good Luck and Best of Wishes
2007-03-17 17:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by Philosophical One 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that comes with the environment, it is a bar filled with horny men.
If it makes you mad and offended maybe you should surround urself with a more positive environment where you can be appreciated.
Otherwise it just seems expceted.
Some guys just dont care what they say and they are jerks, but you just cant let it get too you.
2007-03-18 00:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by princessamber_89 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Switch jobs or just deal with it. Actually I heard that if you wear an engagement ring then the guys will leave you alone. Wear it on your wedding finger & say you're engaged , hopefully some guys will at least stop bothering you:)
2007-03-18 00:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by sweet 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Put a ring on your left ring finger. That should help. If not, see if soneone else who works with you can help put it to a stop for you. Take care.
2007-03-18 00:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you work at a bar...you might expect that! men? alcohol?
yep, you need to get a backbone and learn to laugh and roll with the punches. i dont envy you. ask the other gals what they do or say. good luck. peace
2007-03-18 00:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's how you get tips. If the guys didn't flirt, and you didn't flirt back the tips would be way way less.
If you don't like it, choose another job.
2007-03-18 00:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
deal with it. Don't listen to the bs about sexual harrassment. It is always goign to happen. beer + guys =stupid
2007-03-18 00:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by BABY GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's sexual harrassment you should tell the manager or the bouncer and have their asses removed.. that's just disgusting - hate crude men; i'd leave and find some other place to work..
2007-03-18 00:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by gorg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
damn 300 hourly and you do not have to take your clothes off?
where can i sign up?
just tell them you have HIV and the management took pity on you and hired you for ADA reasons
2007-03-18 00:31:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
decide what's more important to you, money, or your self dignity.
2007-03-18 00:25:50 · answer #10 · answered by goodtalkin' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋