If I look attractive, why do women pass me by?

Question

I asked in other forums about my physical appearence they said that I look attractive. So why is it that women always pass me by. I am always kind to women, I never try to get in their pant. So what is it that prevents me getting a girlfriend if I am not unattractive? I have been without a girlfriend for 7 years! There is got to be something I am doing wrong.

When I say Hi to them or "How are you doing?" they just walk away or give me a dirty look. When I ask them for lunch after a friendly conversation. They turn from Jekyl to Hyde and start cussing and swaring at me.

I was using the same picture I have now in the forum about how I look.

Sean, women don't approach me.

Angel so what is it that I don't have?

How do you women know right away if it looks like somone desperate for a girlfriend?

First of all what exactly are meet type situations?

I am sick of hearing "Theres someone out there for everyone" that is absolutly not true! There is more men on earth then there are women those men left over won't find a date. With the smaller number of women, most of them have a date or are already married or are far outside of my "Interquartile Rang" of age.

Even for the ones that are single 90% of them would hate my guts. Even if I do find the "Perfect girl" chances are we might break up sometime later and then there would be nobody else.

What do you mean I don't shower? I shower 3 times a day for crying out loud!

It's not like you can smell me through the web. Plus did you look at my 360? I do wear polo's and jeans and they pass me.

The more info the better my friend.

That's why I keep asking over and over is because other forums don't give enough info.

Answer 1

Attitude my friend. You have to be confident without being arrogant (a fine line). Some women today lie to themselves and say they want a man that cries (don't believe it). They want to feel secure and appreciated. If they say something you agree with let them know from time to time ( That's a good point. Yea, you're right. I couldn't agree more ) not every time.

I sincerely look at a woman as the most beautiful creation to bless the land. I am sooo grateful that they exist as life would be pretty dull without women in the world.

Be nice, yet firm, Be strong, with a gentle approach. Be confident, with a hint of weakness (kryptonite). Take charge without being bossy. Be yourself, with a hint of James Bond. While walking stand fully upright, no slouching, nor looking down (confident not cocky). Add an octave of base to your voice during those close conversations. Speak well of your sister/mother when the opportunity arises from time to time (don't sound like a momma's boy). Oh, don't forget to smile and/or grin when the mood hits. If you walk around looking serious all of the time it takes away from the relaxed mood.

*** Dress to impress. Your clothes send signals a mile away.
*** Body language is a language worth studying and practicing

Answer 2

Dude, Hygiene, Dress, Personality, Looks


If you don't shower no girl in the world will like you. Smell nice 24/7...smell is very seductive dude, I know this sounds weird but I got turned on by some like 60 year old woman in a mall working around perfume section cause she smelt sooo fine, and women are even more susceptible than men over smell.

If you dress like a bum people won't want to be around you. polo + jeans always does it no matter what dude.

Stay in shape, go to the gym so you don't turn into a fatty. Remember, if you don't have the face, then you can at least have the body.

So your nice to them? that's cool, just don't overdo it, don't try too hard or you will just scare 'em away. Just chill, one will come to you soon. Have confidence (women love confidence...alot) just not *********. Make her feel protected too,

Yea, this is alot of info I'm giving you here so take it all in.

One last thing, don't talk about yourself too much, just be (or at least look like) an intent listener and listen about their life.

Answer 3

are you sure they're not lying to you when they said you're attractive? Because just because you're not unattractive it doesn't mean you are attractive you know.
Beside, if you don't try to have a girlfriend, then it'll be much more easier for you to get one soon. Because I've met a boy like you before and the first thing I noticed when I met him was that he looked like he wants a girlfriend very desperately, and I gave him a dirty look too.

Answer 4

Even though you're nice to women, it doesn't necessarily mean you have an intriguing personality, sense of humor or confidence. Being nice to a women is just one of the elements to getting her attention. You need to captivator and be someone who is wants to get to know and spend her time with. It's important to be nice, but being polite doesn't always mean you are Mr. Personality.

Answer 5

i cannot see your pic that well. Sorry, i cannot answer your question. So..send me your pic and i will answer...


*plus sometimes one persons idea of being attractive is different then the others..maybe you should start looking at other qualities you possess.
**by the way women turn to jerks if threaten..are you scaring them to the point that they are forced to turn to Hyde?? consider your actions..sometimes it is not what you say but how you approach the person..
***good luck

Answer 6

They probably assume you are womanizer or something. They probalby just dont want to be another number. You're going to have to get creative and overcome their objection to going out with you. Maybe you arent trying hard enough.

Answer 7

women are not usually in the habit of men approaching them on the street unless theyre a hooker. try meeting people in meet type situations. good luck. peace

Answer 8

what picture were you using?- id use brad pitts next time~ the other strike against you is the simple fact women tend to be smart, and can see thru guys fairly easily~~sorry about your luck

Answer 9

1. Face 2. Boobies (if I can without looking like a perv) 3. Butt and Legs, maybe just how they move :)

Answer 10

You're being too nice, let women approach you.