i`m really mixed up here,i got a guys phone number and he was always texting and calling me and he said only yesterday that he wa interested but now for some reason he`s blanking me.i thi k it may be because i didn`t reply to his text last night.
he then text me again tonight asking if he could call me and i said yes but he didn`t call me.so now i dont know what to think as he was the one who seemed really keen and actually told my mum (she goes to his work)that he was going to call me.
I actually sent a text to him by mistake saying that i understand him being a bit offso i don`t know if that has put himoff but i did sed it by accident and he hasn`t replied either this text or when he said he was going to call me.
I personally think he`s lost interest but not 100%certain.what do you think?
2007-03-17 17:32:20 · 10 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I refer you back to my first answer regarding this topic. it seems he may not be interested in you anymore or may be your mom has said something to him about you while they were at work. or may be because he works with your mom he does not want to get involved with you. more fool him.
so give him up to 24 hours to reply and ask you out for a date that evening. if no date is forthcoming you have to forget him and give a better guy a chance. there are better guys out there for you than that one.
instead of text use the number to actually speak to him (unless he is deaf and text is the only way long distance you can communicate).
it makes my blood boil when a guy does this to a woman who is clearly interested in him. mainly because some of us can not get a girl interested regardless of what we do. and here this moron is being like this.
of course he may have only been looking for a good time and not a long term relationship and so because he knows the questioners mom he feels embarrassed and so rather than use and abuse the questioner he is now simply being like a naughty child and ignoring her.
all i can suggest is the questioner regains her self respect and blocks the guys number and moves on to someone who will be with her regardless of what or who is around them both, and who will treat her as you wants and deserves to be treated.
2007-03-17 18:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave things as they are and if he is interested then he will text you, don't text him. Because right now it seems as if he is playing games, if he's lost interest then so be it it wasn't as if the two of you had really got together. Leave things and find yourself someone that isn't going to mess you about
2007-03-18 04:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a very confused indecisive person and believe me you do not want such people in your life, they will only bring you heartache and misery. Forget about him, you are worth more than that. You a princess and every man you let into your life even if it is for a split second should treat you so. Move on gal.
2007-03-18 01:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Texting is never as good as good old 1 to 1 In-Real-Life physical verbal comminication, where you can see other person and fully understand what they are saying.
Text leaves open alot of thoughts and intended messages open to a lot of misunderstanding and incorrect scrutinity of hidden meanings - reading wrong stuff in to it which wasn't intended.
2007-03-18 00:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Narky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there, my personal opinion is that you have enjoyed this guy chasing you, but when he stopped texing and calling you the tables reversed and now your more in to him! so save yourself any heart ache or embarssment and let him do the chasing! cause as everyone knows a man always wants what he cant have! make yourself almost unavailable to him!
and hell come running back with his tail between his legs!good luck
2007-03-18 00:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello there,sorry to be rude,but you have to forget him,and move on,find some one who goes crazy about you.just should not have any second thoughts about you,thats worth all the worry,not this ,its a waste of time and energy.
2007-03-18 02:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by alec. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your hot get in touch with me I am man enough to satisfy yet caring enough to stimulate
2007-03-18 00:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by properwired 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably best to say hello and talk to him face to face really - aviods alot of confusion :o))
2007-03-18 00:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop getting so desperate.
2007-03-18 00:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt bother with him....
2007-03-18 00:41:55 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋