Im falling for someone I havnt seen in months, Its stupid but I cant help it, I dont know what im going to do, I cant see him, I want him! What can I do, im crying, help me please!
2007-03-17 17:20:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well he knows how I feel about him, he feels the same way! I moved....
2007-03-17 17:25:00 · update #1
Well there's always going to be someone your going to miss, it happens! My advice is find some way to reconnect and get to know that oh so special someone again! Or just try to find someone new and it Will help you forget about that blast from the past!
2007-03-17 17:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by Emma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you haven't seen him in months, he may be long gone. If he goes to your school or lives nearby but you just dont see him in school, then find him and talk to him about how you feel. Guys want the girl to tell them their true feelings for the guy. If you can't see him, you could always try calling him or finding a way to contact him. Maybe you should find another guy, because usually when you like the guy u went out with before it's because you want to be loved, not that you want to be loved by him again.
2007-03-18 00:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by soccergod7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem i fell for this guy that lived 7-8 hours away in a different state. Dont worry about sweety, things will get better and your friends will most likely help you out. And its not stupid for falling for someone you haven't seen in months. Trust me you'll move on eventually and you'll meet a lot of new amazing guys around your area. Dont let it get to you. Remember you only have one life so have fun dont let this guy bring you down because you wont see him. you never know maybe someday you guys will cross paths.
2007-03-18 00:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by reptar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing to help ease the pain my dear. it is a fall that is going to hurt & there is no emotional bandaid big enough to help you heal.. im sure youd heard this plenty of times, but it will take time to get over him or heal or move on. however you want to think of it as. love is a difficult thing to explain(i myself have never been fortunate enough to encounter it yet, but i know enough about it). its something that can be studied & picked about about what it does to a human being.. yes is sad & almost pathetic & crule sounding, but love is meant to be hard. its also meant to be good.. however from how you tell this story, i do not see a happy ending for you in this relationship. my best advise it to go out & have a date with a few guys. if you dont like at all then dont go out with them again.. look for someother fish int he sea. you WILL get over him.. with time & its a process. i wish you the best of luck. email me anytime you feel you need to. <3 im always here 7 im a great listener.
2007-03-18 00:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by Lor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a bad case you have there. Why haven't you seen him and why can't you see him? There are phones, emails and other good stuff that allows people to have loving relationships over distance. Stop that crying and get in touch with him and tell him how you feel.
2007-03-18 00:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him up and see what happens. If you truly want him then you won't sit around waiting to be rescued like some princess barred up in a castle. Guys like when girls are outgoing and make the first move.
Talking to him, I believe, will help ease your apprehensive state. You never know, things may escalate from the conversation and you may become immersed in your "fantasy land" that you oh so seek.
Good Luck
2007-03-18 00:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by Philosophical One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if it's definitely true love but what I know is when you couldn't see him for months and you miss him that bad, that means you definitely have feelings for him. And why cant you see him? even though you cant... try to get a phone number or something, because maybe just hearing his voice will calm you down.
2007-03-18 00:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by musiclover1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either get drunk and screw round a bit to forget or find something new or. MOVE BACK ya nut, who moves when they have ties to someone in another town. if they feel the same maybe he'd move for you. something you gotta figure out urself and compromise a gang of internet people can't tell you what to do
2007-03-18 00:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by Matt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you see him? Have you tried to contact him? If he doesn't know how you feel maybe you should tell him. You never know he may be feeling the same way about you.
2007-03-18 00:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should tell him.. But how come you haven't seen him in months? If you are feeling hard inside spit it out and say what you really need to... Good Luck
Kevin
2007-03-18 00:24:03 · answer #10 · answered by Kevin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋