After being a participant of an affair and being strung along by a married man, I WANT OUT!!!
I've seen the light and do not want to participate in this "relationship" anymore. I have tried several times to let him know that I no longer wanted to deal with him, but there is a challenge...
We work for a huge, great, public company. We also work on the same floor so I have to see him everyday. I don't want to leave the job b/c it's a very prestigious place to be. How do I avoid having feelings for him when I have to see him on a daily basis??? Any suggestions on how to end this affair?
2007-03-17 17:21:45 · 8 answers · asked by Ins2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he's married then it should be a no-brainer!
Or you could write a letter defining the reasons, you want out.
Fold it up and put the letter in your purse so you can pull it out everyday
when you get to work
those times when you see him from across the room (and get those feelings)
after you bump into him in the hall or elsewhere and he wants to get back together
You've already decided to end this relationship but it sounds like your having difficulty in putting this to words.
It is simple, just say No!
2007-03-17 17:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him know how you feel. You don't have to quit your job just because you had an affair with him. Tell him that you are there strictly for the job and nothing else. If you have had an affair with him that long and he hasn't left his wife, he isn't going to. He is just using you. You should never get involved with a married man or a coworker. Both of those spell nothing but trouble.
2007-03-17 17:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 04:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by sanderlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u made ur bed so u have to lay in it.................its good you have come to see the light...........in mu opinion no woman deserves to be number 2 everyone is good enough to be number 1. But in opinion the best thing to do is find some way to get off his floor and if u cant u might have to quit. To get someone or something out of ur system you have to quit cold turkey for awhile until the temptation pases if it neve passes then you should never be around the person.
2007-03-17 17:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by exceptionallyexceptional 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick one: your honor or your paycheck.
Quit the job, the "prestige" hardly matters if you've been having an affair with a married co-worker. I'm sure everyone knows what you've been up to anyway. Best to start fresh elsewhere.
2007-03-17 17:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want out then let him know that this relationship is
over once and for all. then move on. if you have to work with
this man that one thing.but keep it simple and to the point.
2007-03-17 18:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell it to him directly... Explain to him.
2007-03-17 21:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill him
2007-03-17 17:43:36 · answer #8 · answered by pimpster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋