My boyfriend has been coming over house and he's been telling me that he doesn't feel welcome in my house anymore. He think my mom is trying to keep me away from him. He think's that he is creating problems between my mom and I because she screams and yells at me when I talk about him and my brother always tries to fight him. I love my boyfriend he didn't do anything to anybody he is a good person.
2007-03-17 17:32:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
first you need to ask your mom and your brother why they have a problem with him. then id start hanging out at his house. i dated a guy for 2 years and his family HATED me, for no reason. dont subject your boyfriend to your family's harassment, its not fair to him.
2007-03-17 17:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by beautifulbunny0286 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend treats you right and if he didn't do anything to your mother and your brother, then they'll have to get over whatever they're feeling towards him. I think your mother and brother are jealous of him because they feel like he's taking you from them. What you need to do is talk to your boyfriend and let him know how much you love him and how much he needs to stay him because you love who he is. You also need to tell your mother and your brother that he'll never take their place because there is room in your heart for him and them and you think it's just wrong that they can't get along. Ask them to behave themselves when they all come together - for you and to remain cool.
2007-03-17 17:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you be willing, and would your mother and brother also be willing, to sit down and the three of you talk (and listen) with each other about this boyfriend? Take notes if you have/want to. To help you remember what they have to say. First, please keep in mind, that they are wanting the best for you. And, your brother, knows how guys think and act, etc. about/and around gals. Please be willing to sit and listen to them first. Then, you can have your say, according to their concerns. And, if they and your boyfriend are willing, maybe then, or another time, the four of you sit down and discuss all of this. My mom sat down with one guy I was dating and asked him where he was coming from, etc. I appreciated it too. Take care.
2007-03-17 17:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well unless your mother is a psycho, she may see something you dont. Talk to her, she may yell but dont give her the satisfaction of yelling back, see if you can find out why she thinks what she does. As for your brother.... give him a noogie or somin
2007-03-17 17:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by Stupendous Man! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Privately ask your mom what she doesn't like about him. Maybe you already know, maybe you don't. Think carefully about whether she is right or not.
I think you are at an emotional age, so it's good to sit back and use your logic now and then.
2007-03-17 17:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider why they dont like him if u feel its unwarrented then live ur life but it would probably be best to stop talkin about him with them and meeting him somewhere else and not at ur house.
2007-03-17 17:37:47 · answer #6 · answered by exceptionallyexceptional 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience, I wish that I had taken my mother's intuition to heart when I was younger. It would have saved me from wasting 7 years of my life with someone that was so wrong for me.
2007-03-17 17:38:16 · answer #7 · answered by lxl_serendipity_lxl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to BUTT OUT. It's not their life. It's like they are dating him. Tell you're brother to back off or I will kick him in the *** so hard he will be talking sh_t for a month...LOL
2007-03-17 17:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should sit your brother, mom and boyfriend dwn and than ask your mom and brother y they are acting this way? why they dont like him ? and what did your boyfriend do to them to treat him that way
2007-03-17 18:16:59 · answer #9 · answered by brenda_lilb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront them and tell them about him. convince them that your boyfriend is truly a great person. they're really breaking the laws of hospitality there.
2007-03-17 17:37:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋