Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

Well, he really likes star Wars (and before you can criticize, he is only 13 so no big deal). What to get him. Note that my budget is TINY!

2007-03-16 09:32:42 · 17 answers · asked by Hershey's Kiss 4 in Friends

i own a coffee house and i am approached by beutiful woman all day long. being a single man i enjoy flirting and conversation with them.. but hopefully, i want to take some conversations further. but it always seems to fall flat. how do i go about actually taking it from conversations to one step further. what are some definate signs that some of these woman actually dig me, and not just like the small talk

2007-03-16 09:32:37 · 16 answers · asked by courisousgeorge 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that the only profiles I see are the ones of people who aren't even active members anymore?????

Why does everyone hide their profiles?
Do you know something I don't...?
Should I not have a profile or what?

2007-03-16 09:32:21 · 3 answers · asked by Dee 3 in Family

Please only answer if you have something constructive to say, as I already know this whole this is wrong, and I just need some help. My situation is this:::
I recently married my long-term b/f of 6 years this past year. I have always felt we were more "friends" than lovers and I guess some would say that we both settled for what was comfortable when we married. I try to be "intimate" with him but it feels very forced, and he is not a very romantic &/or sexual person towards me. (e.g.- he only kisses me when he wants sex...which is once every three weeks if I'm lucky). I have tried to talk to him, but the communication is lacking as well- and he just gets defensive with me.
On the flip side, where I am at fault...is that my heart has always been with an ex of mine who I have now just started sleeping with again (well, twice since married). Our chemistry has always been amazing, and I've always wished he was the one I married..except he never wanted marriage so we split.
Making this

2007-03-16 09:32:02 · 40 answers · asked by NYCaliGal 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Then she saw me in the club with my girlfriend
and came over and told her everything.
I feel she was wrong to do that. My girlfriend
has left me because of it.
How can I get her back?

2007-03-16 09:31:35 · 36 answers · asked by William 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean, there's barely any damage. I just wasn't looking while I was backing up. Their car is OK. The claim against our insurance isn't worth it.

What do you think?

2007-03-16 09:31:25 · 31 answers · asked by Disco Stu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

b4 we meet i liked going out , quite often single no ties just work, i took on his kid from birth, as the mother didnt bother, but now i feel like im just a boring parent doing the same things day in day out with nothing to show for it i gave up my work so i could care for the kid now im bored .. i love them both but hey im 19 not 61 if i asked my bf to go out he say nto without me .. please help i just need someone to talk to

2007-03-16 09:31:16 · 8 answers · asked by honey 2 in Family

I have two step children. My husband and I got custody of the younger one about seven years ago when he was eleven. Their mother is a partier and encourages them to be just like her. They are grown now but the younger one is still in school. He still lives with us and doesnt help out at all with cleaning or food. We provide everything for him. I also have my daughter living with me who is grown but is going through a divorce and custody battle with her ex. She cant help out much because her ex doesnt pay much support and she has three very young kids. We help her because she needs it but I dont feel that his kids need as much help. They both work and have no kids yet they both constantly have their hands out wanting more and more and when I say anything to my husband he always says well were helping your daughter. He gives them whatever they ask for and he does it behind my back. He has told me to throw my daughter and her kids out but his son has everything he could want.

2007-03-16 09:31:12 · 4 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Family

we have been talking for almost a month. i like him. he wants to meet. i do to but i am scared. i dont think he is a bad guy but i ask my self am i ready? iam a single mom, and it has been just me and my son for 7 years,(yes i still have sex) but no seriouse relationships. help

2007-03-16 09:31:02 · 5 answers · asked by scooby91099 2 in Singles & Dating

she broke mine!

2007-03-16 09:30:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

people to the point that she invites them over for dinner and they annoy me because they think everything should be in it's place. What do I do?

2007-03-16 09:30:37 · 2 answers · asked by Pipe Grampa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a boyfriend that recently asked me if i would marry him, and a boy friend that he lives in another city, but is coming to my city soon. i was telling my boyfriend that i have such friend and he's coming here soon, and he asked me to cut the relationship with him cuz as i dont like him with other girls, he doesnt me to have boy friends either. and since i love him so much and respect him wishes, i wrote my friend that i have to cut it with him. i did think he would be angry but i thought he'd forget. instead i got an email from him reminding me that we promised to be faithful friends and that the whole reason of his coming was me, that he wanted to propose to me for marriage. i'm really stuck here, and hurt too. cuz i didnt want to hurt his feelings and i really didnt know he wanted me for marriage too. and i'm here hurting everyone's feelings including my own. help me plz

2007-03-16 09:30:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Nothing against the younger people, Im just curious as to whos 40 and older here.....state age/sex/location......I'm 43/f/illinois
Thanks!

2007-03-16 09:30:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a friend and he told me about his situation. He American and was once married with a Japanese woman yet they divorced after a year. They have a daughter and the mother go back to Japan, now the father is in Iraq since he is a US Navy. He always send letters and gift to her beloved daughter, yet his ex-wife's attorney sent him a letter telling him that he has no right to contact to his daughter because he has no custody on his daughter because according to Japanese law, there is no custody in Japan, is it right? What are we going to do in order to get contact with his daughter??? Please I need your response asap. thank you so much

2007-03-16 09:30:08 · 4 answers · asked by gracie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please give details i need to know i am getting stupid i have reasons to believe that this is a set up to get him to meet other girls his people don't swallow me to well

2007-03-16 09:29:40 · 23 answers · asked by k w 1 in Weddings

I know this sounds like a dumb question but here is my situation: I have a boyfriend who is really into sports. He plays basketball all the time and works out pretty much every day. I on the other hand don't play any sports. I do go to the gym a few times a week and I'm not overweight or anything, and I also know alot about sports and am able to have a conversation about it. All of his other girlfriends have been cheerleaders, basketball players etc and I think I'm the first one that I know of that isnt a sports star. He tells me he likes me more than he has ever liked anyone but sometimes I worry that in the back of his mind that he will start to dislike the fact that I am not very athletic and go find another girl that is. I would do anything for this boy and I really dont want to lose him so I was wondering if other guys think that a girl should play sports?

2007-03-16 09:29:24 · 6 answers · asked by ---- 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my mates have been arguing about what a woman looks for in a guy. Tall? Short? Domineering? Loving? I realise it will be different for each woman but is there a type that women just can't resist??

2007-03-16 09:29:02 · 26 answers · asked by GLENN M 1 in Singles & Dating

I have anxiety about it. I hate sex! I don't have time to get a buzz before going home and he doesn't like for me to drink, but that's the only way I can get in the mood. I just hate it so bad, I wish I never ever *had* to do it again. My husband is 50 and I hope that soon his sex drive will greatly decrease. I know some jerks will answer with that I must not love him or that I'm selfish....well, I love him dearly. I don't see what one has to do with the other.
Oh, god, I just can't stand it and I don't know what to do.

2007-03-16 09:28:38 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A boy at school I like has a girlfriend but me and my friends can kinda see that he is loseing interest in her. He sat at my lunch table the other day and said "You know I have a girlfriend and I would ask for your number but I cant" then he gave me his number and he flirts with me all the time and constantly stares at me .So I called him and he said he was on the phone with his sister it was late so he wants me to call him today does he like me will he eventually break up with his girlfriend for me he acts as if he doesnt like her anymore.Was that really his sister on the phone because something didnt sound right about that.

2007-03-16 09:28:22 · 5 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I mean I have friends, but I don't think I'm close with any of them (they're just aquantinces) No matter how nice I try to be to people, no matter how myself I try to be, most of them just brush me off. They pretty much shut me out and don't invite me to anything. I try to invite them to stuff, and they go, but they never invite me back! My best friend lives half way across the country from me, and I know my teenage hormones are speaking but I just feel uber lonely. Does anyone have any advice?

2007-03-16 09:27:49 · 13 answers · asked by i love love 3 in Friends

I am dating a girl that i have known for a long time. I am very much in love with her and we get along very well. I am not sure if it is good for us to be together. In the past i had serious problems with depression and suicidal thoughts and so on. And she is still at the point in her life that she has depression and suicidal thoughts. She will not go to see a psychologist. And as i said I lover her very much. But in relationships you feed off of each others strength and if we both have had the same problem could that make it worse. Now i have gotten past the depression but she is still there. I know this is a dangerous time for her. But do you think that with that being in my past could help her or hurt her?

2007-03-16 09:27:43 · 6 answers · asked by burn409 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 09:27:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been home cooking her dinner for the past 2 hours. Should I be upset?

2007-03-16 09:27:09 · 18 answers · asked by bugs280 5 in Marriage & Divorce

when your having sex for the first time how does it feels.

2007-03-16 09:26:33 · 15 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

what is a good way to flirt with a guy that u really like?

(a shy guy)

2007-03-16 09:26:10 · 7 answers · asked by i ♥ u 3 in Singles & Dating

ok...i wanted to know from guys what they prefer their gf or the girl their making out with to do when ur making out...im taking my bf home with me today(like i do every friday) and i wanted to try something different that he may like...oh we've been going uout for 2 months as of tomorrow.

2007-03-16 09:25:37 · 6 answers · asked by JackieJaguar08 3 in Singles & Dating

I WAS dating a man for about 4 months. I did not mean to listen to his conversation he was talking long distance and i overheard him say i love you to. I was so shocked and he was talking to a female on the phone. I questioned him and he said it was not that kind of love. What did he mean by that?????????

2007-03-16 09:25:15 · 6 answers · asked by Beutifulred10 2 in Singles & Dating

his name is tucker i really like him he is my ex he dumped me because he was jeaulos that i had guy friends i really like him and he dosen't really talk to me but his friends say that he still likes me should i go for it and ask him out just to try

2007-03-16 09:25:07 · 32 answers · asked by AJ:) 2 in Singles & Dating

ive been hanging out with this victoria for 2 months and the last 2/3 weeks ive been eating lunch with her and her friends one of the s is brittany and she has a bf named joel.anyway i was withy my sister and i had a bird caller/wistle in my mouth and he and and one of his friends were making ual comments. ive only known brittany 2 weeks and dont really talk to her besides lunch so i dont see why i should but i also dont see why notwould you tell britt if you were me?

2007-03-16 09:25:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im in 5th grade im 11 she is 10 she thinks im a showof. her brother is my best friend she is not able to go on a date. she knows i like her. she likes me as a friend. but i want to get closer.

2007-03-16 09:24:52 · 7 answers · asked by mi 1 in Singles & Dating