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Well, I mean I have friends, but I don't think I'm close with any of them (they're just aquantinces) No matter how nice I try to be to people, no matter how myself I try to be, most of them just brush me off. They pretty much shut me out and don't invite me to anything. I try to invite them to stuff, and they go, but they never invite me back! My best friend lives half way across the country from me, and I know my teenage hormones are speaking but I just feel uber lonely. Does anyone have any advice?

2007-03-16 09:27:49 · 13 answers · asked by i love love 3 in Family & Relationships Friends

13 answers

lol.uber.that word is so funny. ne way i had the same problem. u need to have more confidence in urself. and get to know you more. take urself out, treat urself to things. and try to find good qualities in urself. so next time u feel that way. you reaction will be

"they are missing out on sum1 special...."

or
"im kewl as shi*t they must be crazy for not wanting to chill wit me"

its a confidence issue. once u love urself and care less about other people. u will attract others., they will see ur confidence and wanna be around u.

and leave ur so called friends in the dust. they r corny

2007-03-16 09:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well, dear!

I don't know how old you are, but as you said "teenage hormones" I will say you must be a teenager. So... I would just be myself!

If you practice a sport or dance lessons it would help (because you would be part of a group or a team)
Even if it's not a team sport (like swimming or skating) but for sure everybody who practice the same activities get involved.

Don't worry too much because you will really make frieds for life when you get to College or University

Take a Language Course!

Trips are also a good advice!!!

Good luck!

2007-03-16 16:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by Skater Angel 5 · 0 0

As a hater of humanity, I can attest that I long ago gave up on relying on other people to entertain me or make me happy.

People suck and the one person you can always count on is YOU!

Find things you like to do: Play video games, some sport where you can practice by yourself if you have to, watch movies, read books, go to a gym etc. When you are happy with yourself, you don't need anyone else. And if you do these things, you will bump into other people that share the same interests and are looking for friends too.

Same thing with me, I ask people to do things, and they go, but I will be old and gray before others ask me to do things with them. I mostly do what I want, whenever I want, and if others join in, fine, if not, I don't care.

2007-03-16 16:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I understand how u feel..u just want a couple really close friend thats will always be there for u..that u can share clothes with and have movies nights with and juss spend time with as friends....i understnad maybe u shuld juss keep lookin for gurl that might seem like UNPOPULAR to you...cus alot of poplular people alwyas have best friend and wont wanna make new ones..trust me i know...but some unpopular people r really fun to be with...once u get to know thm...sorry ur havin troublleeee..

2007-03-16 16:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I can relate. Been there. Done that. Older and wiser now. Select one person, try inviting him/her (best friends can be either) out and being in their company for a month. Give the friendship a chance to develop. If it doesn't work, try someone else until it catches. Good Luck

2007-03-16 16:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by Peaches 2 · 0 0

i think we all feel that way at times in our life.....maybe you are selecting the wrong friends? I have found out that most of the people I know are just aquantinces, its not so easy to find a "true friend", when you do find one, hang on to him/her......also, you need to be a friend to make a friend......

2007-03-16 16:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Keep asking and asking. Sometimes it just takes a while for people to warm up. And try some new people if these don't respond. maybe join a youth group or something like that?

2007-03-16 16:31:47 · answer #7 · answered by ambrosius15 2 · 0 0

Be friendly with people....Try to make a good first impression, and that will usually stick...Just smile a lot, and be nice to them.

2007-03-16 16:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by Lou 4 · 0 0

Well are you snotty?...Because if you are people might not want to hang out wtih a stuck up person you know?....Just try to find out who you are first and then find people who are like you

2007-03-16 16:32:36 · answer #9 · answered by ~small town girl~ 2 · 0 0

Girl,
You probobly have a lot of girls that wont to be your friend.Just when you get another one don't get to interested in their lives.Just kind of go with the flow.

2007-03-16 16:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by cindyh 1 · 0 0

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