his name is tucker i really like him he is my ex he dumped me because he was jeaulos that i had guy friends i really like him and he dosen't really talk to me but his friends say that he still likes me should i go for it and ask him out just to try
2007-03-16 09:25:07 · 32 answers · asked by AJ:) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it! If his friends say he still likes you, chances are he does. It certainly can't hurt.
2007-03-16 09:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by Prue 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That's really tough. I guess if you really like him you should go with your emotions and ask him out, but on the other hand he sounds kind of like a jerk and you might want to move on. I guess what I would do is try and get over him and don't let him stop you from living your life at all, if he asks you out first, then I'd make sure he's learned to trust you and dealt with his problem with your friends before you say yes. The fact that he isn't okay with your friends is a major sign of immaturaty, and might make him a controlling boyfriend and get that could get you into an unhealthy relationship. Overall, I would say don't ask him out. Try to move on even though it might be hard.
2007-03-16 09:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still like each other that much, it's definitely worth a shot. But, you have to be willing to make it work. Relationships are give and take hon, so if he feels uncomfortable with certain things, try to sacrifice a bit of what you want, or want to do for him. He'll really appreciate that, and hopefully the trust will then start to grow between you two.
2007-03-16 09:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by mixdrozes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since Tucker broke up with you, let him be responsible for coming back to talk to you like a worthy and mature boyfriend.
If he has a problem with jealousy, then he needs to acknowledge that and work on that--not restrict you and your platonic friendship circle when you've given him no cause for jealousy or worry about your faithfulness.
To dump you because you have male friends or to try to put excessive limits on who you can have platonic friendships with (i.e., males), means that he is out of control and trying to UNreasonably control YOU when he needs to control HIMself, HIS suspicions, HIS jealousy.
Get rid of him if he gives you ultimatums. You can do much better. Besides, you've already shown that you're a prize worth having and that he may not be worthy of YOU.
2007-03-16 09:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I think you should move on. Maybe you guys could be friends, but jealousy is a VERY bad thing in a relationship and you don't need to put yourself in that position. I am in that situation now, and trying to convince someone that you are just friends and to trust you for 6 months is not the way to go.
I know it will be hard, but try to find someone better for you! Trust me, I know you like him, but is it really worth fighting over trust and/or saying goodbye to your friends??
2007-03-16 09:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by HelpMe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You still have guy friends: than No
Does he treat you bad: than No
Is he a ladies man: than No
I believe he probably had a right to be jealous, he's a boy so he knows that those "guy friends" are just trying to get in your pants. You might not be ready for a modern day boyfriend/girlfriend thing. It seems you still want to look around and be admired by other guys. But than again i dont know you or him. Do what seems best for your future.
2007-03-16 09:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by dashiznititis 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dnt think he dumped you just becuase you had guys friends, maybe he is insecure that something might happen between you and one of your guy friends. If you really like him then i suggest you talk to him and make him trust you. Make him understand why you want to be with him and not the other guy friends you have. That should help.
2007-03-16 09:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by rex41e 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yah i had the same problem...i was goin out wit a guy & he broke up wit me 4 like the same reason & i still liked him after....but 4 get bout me...dah best thing 2 do is talk 2 him up front & ask him what been goin on wit him & see if he does still like you THAN u guys should talk about going back out & that your guy friend are just friends
hope i helpd
~13chula13~
2007-03-16 09:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by .:CHULA:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try, but you should also stay firm in your resolution to keep your guy friends. If he can't handle that, then he's not the one for you, and he's got to know that. Tell him that he is the one you have chosen (if you get back together). He may have to learn some confidence - can you wait for him to learn?
2007-03-16 09:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look baby, youre worth too much. You deserve someone that will respect every aspect of you, even your friends. Usually aggression starts with excesive jealousy. May not be the answer you want to hear, but look for someone who respects you!
2007-03-16 09:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by Javier B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yah..say what u said to us..say how u feel. I think u need to go out on the limb and prove to him that u still like him and not the other guy friends..maybe that will just show him how much u like him and he will get over his jealousy
Good Luck gurl!!
2007-03-16 09:27:48 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋