I Slept With This Woman And Had Sex?

Question

Then she saw me in the club with my girlfriend
and came over and told her everything.
I feel she was wrong to do that. My girlfriend
has left me because of it.
How can I get her back?

Answer 1

You can't if you really loved her you would not have cheated. It's people like you that give guys a bad name.

Answer 2

Well shame on you!!! If you love your girlfriend then why do u have to cheat anyways. And she was not wrong for telling your girlfriend, you should have told her. How would you feel if you were in her shoes???? If i were her i wouldnt take you back b/c once a cheater always a cheater. But all i can tell you is you better be kissing her butt big big time if you want her back. I mean send roses all the time send her love letters tell her numerous times how sorry you are. She will eventually give in to ya, as long as she does love you.

Answer 3

Well if you were involved w/ your girlfriend when you slept w/ this other woman,then you were wrong also!!If this happened before you were in a relationship then you need to explain that and work on making thing right,but it's probably not gonna be all that easy either way!!

Answer 4

She had every right if you did not put all of your cards on the table. If you were not opened and honest enough to tell her (the woman you Fu--ed) that all you wanted was a one night stand because you have a girlfriend. You got exactly what you deserve. remember that we can't always have our cake and eat it too -- although we continually try and often fail -- Learn from your mistake.

Answer 5

well you screwed up and if you really want to get your girlfriend back you are going to have to give her a little bit of space and then beg. i do not believe she will take you back easily. what were you tinking anyway. if you are in a committed relationship that you want to stay together you can't sleep with people. the girl should have kept her mouth shut and took it up with you later. she was probably mad because she was expecting you to call her and you probably lie about not having a gf.

Answer 6

Sorry pal - you burned yourself on this one. If you are going to play you will always pay. That's why I only date one woman at a time and stay faithful to that one. I learned that a long time ago. Once the trust is broken with a woman it usually doesn't ever return.

Answer 7

yea you should never have cheated if you love you ex girl but its hard to find some one you can just be with for fun that one time with out them busting you out !!! U broke a trust that is hard to gain back once its broke and you should call her all the time tell her your sorry buy her new stuff get on your knees and tell her its a mistake that will never happen agian and your so sorry for hurting her and your willing to do anything to get her back

Answer 8

You violated her trust in a big way, if she did come back, that would be a red flag too. If I cheated and was caught, (throw in a bunch of lies for good measure) and my girl took me back? Heheh I would wonder what is wrong with her for taking me back.

Sorry man.

Answer 9

If she's got any self-respect, you won't be able to get her back. She's got better options than being with a cheater. Learn the lesson...if you want to play around, then don't pretend to be in a committed relationship.

Answer 10

That is what you get when you two - time. I hope you have learnt your lessons?

Just go back to the lady and on your knees ask for forgiveness with lots of flowers. She will reject your pleas for sometime but persist and she will forgive you. Goodluck!