i own a coffee house and i am approached by beutiful woman all day long. being a single man i enjoy flirting and conversation with them.. but hopefully, i want to take some conversations further. but it always seems to fall flat. how do i go about actually taking it from conversations to one step further. what are some definate signs that some of these woman actually dig me, and not just like the small talk
2007-03-16 09:32:37 · 16 answers · asked by courisousgeorge 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give her the coffee for free and just say it really fast "would you like to grab some dinner"
2007-03-16 09:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by buzyb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the same woman[women] come in daily?? Does she ask you any personal questions ? Remember things you've told her before?? is it different types of small talk? Big smiles, try to catch your eye? If you notice these things you could probably ask her out for a cup of coffee!!! Then you could start by just sitting and chatting at your business[just make sure you have enough help, so you can actual chat] then see where it goes from there. Hope this helps, good luck.
2007-03-16 16:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by KC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not try having a night time event at your coffee shop? you could pick a charity, have the proceeds go there, maybe hire entertainment or pick a theme. its a great way to see the women you come into contact with in a slightly different scenario, and do some good, and put yourself out there as a catch! if you contact a local charity - they could help you with planning the event. advertise around your shop for weeks leading up to it - offer discounts to those that donate or sponsor the event.
2007-03-16 16:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking them out for coffee at another coffee shop might do the trick to see if their interested in you instead of small talk.
2007-03-16 16:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a woman and i cant even tell you... we are all different you know... some women will smile... some will start an argument... we are a complicated breed...
You need to firstly find the one you like... and then make her relise you dig her... dont wait till you know which girl digs you... smile... hold your head up... be confident and keep looking at her... meet her eyes... she'll know :-)
2007-03-16 16:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by Lily Allen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You no exactly what u do
1.the female walks in and u approach her casually like "hey thanks for stoppin in just make small talk it always works"
2.then say "this coffe is on the house u are the 1,000th visitor and then laugh and say im just joking but the coffe is on the house"
2007-03-16 16:39:24 · answer #6 · answered by Sohotz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a lady stands for more then 30min's talking to you and she seem interested in the conversation. then that's when you know you can ask her out. look in her eyes, and if you see that she looks away every so often then shes just talking to you cause of your business.
good luck!!!
2007-03-16 16:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by me & you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't boast about yourself too much, women loose interest. ask her what she likes and talk about that a little bit. if they say they want to learn more about you, then that is a sign. if she exchanges numbers or emails, then that is a good sign too. if she laughs too much or is constantly looking around, then she is not that interested.
2007-03-16 16:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone linger longer than usual just to chat with u? That's her!
2007-03-16 16:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by Chloe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, ihink some signs woul be if she called ou every day or if she saw you everyday, go out every weekend,but thats all that i can tink of...so i hope that this really helps you.....good luck!!
2007-03-16 16:38:49 · answer #10 · answered by Bella Swan ~I Wish~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋