Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

My current girlfriend, and I have been dating for 6 months. I have had herpes for about 20 years, and I know when I have out breaks, so I can hide it from people that I date. I don't have unprotected sex since I found out. My new girlfriend hates condoms, and we have been sexual active without protection. She has notice something small on herself in the female area. Do you think she will run away if i tell her?

2007-03-16 09:24:44 · 16 answers · asked by Dr. Richard Fitzwell 2 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering how; it seems now that if a girl changes her mind a week after having sex, then she has been officially raped. What gives?

2007-03-16 09:24:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok there is this guy i really like and i asked him if he wanted to do something over easter cause otherwise we wouldnt c each other for a month
anyways now i dont know what to do. i dont want it to look too much like a date (like a fancy resturant) and i just wana do something fun. so suggestions please.
and also what do i talk about? i hate those uncomfortable silences. ( and i know the whole "the silence just means that u both care so much about what to say because u dnot want to say the wrong thing, it just means that he likes u" thing and well firstly im not to sure about that and i need suggestions not some lines someone once said) I know, not well but the basics like "whats ur job, hobbies, and stuff" has been said so please help.
by the way, i´ve never had a date before so just be yourself wont do as myself hasnt been in that situation so i wont to know what u would do and say. and yes i am old enough (16)
thanx a lot

2007-03-16 09:23:52 · 1 answers · asked by Finn 3 in Singles & Dating

A childhood friend of mine invited me to her birthday party at this popular comedy club here in town.And I hadn't seen here in like about a year and a half,and when I seen her, there was no hugs, and not even a smile, when she seen me she said "Oh hey' then sort of walked off, so I'm like well maybe she's got alot on her mind because she was the hostess.But once she was finished with getting everything situated..she sat next to me..and she never really spoke to me the entire time..She conversated with people around me..but not really to me..Plus after the show ended,..she walked off,..and I yelled bye see you later..and she came back and gave me hug..and said okay take care ..plus on top of that after I seen her that day..she hasn't invited me to any of her parties... .so I'm a little confused about here behavior..I know noone can read minds but what would you think if someone you had grown up with did something like that to you..?

2007-03-16 09:23:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My best friend and i have been close for 3 years - it turns out we've secretly liked each other the whole time without even knowing it until now. We do care and have fallen for each other but we decided that we both weren't ready for a serious relationship. Yes, there were times where in between, we would hook up but THIS TIME, we had a serious talk and promised that we can't be "biased" about things and go back to being best friends. We're both happy that things are back to normal...but more him than me. I'm heartbroken because that guy i've been wanting/dreaming for was the one right next to me and i can't be with him. He seems more over it than me - he's just happy we're normal again...then it makes me wonder if he ever had a thing for me....i need to trust what he said because before he said that if we were to be together it would be a time where things weren't as stressful (degree, work, etc..) and he wants it to be serious and long lasting...

HELP ME PLEASE im aching...

2007-03-16 09:23:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you think getting engaged at 19 but waiting about 2 years or so to get married is a good idea..my boyfriend is dropping hints about maybe asking the big question at the end of this year which by then i will be 19...we dont want to get married yet until im done with nursing school we just want to make it offical any advice??

2007-03-16 09:23:02 · 15 answers · asked by verynervous07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-16 09:22:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister is having her sweet 16 in july 2007, we had both plan to place my daugther in her court since she was in my belly. Now that the time has come its a little hard because we dont seem to find another boy that is as big as my daugther. so i suggested that she puts my daugther as a flower girl...but i dont know if it would look right...its not a wedding after all but hey, she really wants her to be in the court...help please

2007-03-16 09:22:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-16 09:22:27 · 14 answers · asked by swapna m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 09:22:24 · 5 answers · asked by Jenycia C 1 in Singles & Dating

When does it mean they like you if ever?

Reasons to touch you,sit close to you etc...

what do you think?

2007-03-16 09:22:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we have always had a solid relationship...until recently. Over the last 4 months or so he has been texting a girl from his work most weekends and whenever he has a day off. I have read some of these texts and I think they are inappropriate as she tells him she thinks he's lovely and she misses him, etc, and also talks about her ex-boyfriend and past relationships. The main issue I have with this is that he lies to me constantly about it. When I ask him if he has recieved a text from her he says no, even when he has & he deletes all his messages to and from her. Now, I don't think he is cheating as she always texts him first and the replies I have seen from him have been of a platonic nature. However, I feel so paranoid at the moment and I can't take anymore lies - why lie if its an innocent friendship?? I have spoken to my b/f about this and he says he understands my concerns, but yet the situation goes on and on! Any advice appriciated!

2007-03-16 09:21:48 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Just need some advice here. Been living common law with bf for over 5 years. He had been kept from his kids from his ex for 7 years, when he finally got to see them again. This is great love the kids(twin boy/girl 15 boy 12) they like me. This is good. About 6 months ago his daughter begged him never to marry me(dont know why, she likes me and all) He PROMISED her hed not marry me, last night he asked me to marry him this summer. That is ok, I was good with the common law thing though. Ive been thinking about this, and what if it ruins the relationship that he finally has with his kids? I love him and I love them, But I dont want to rock the boat either. I know he loves me or he wouldnt have asked, but how are we going to tell the kids.????Hes already been 7 years with out them, I dont want to be the reason for anymore time seperated from them. Any advice?

2007-03-16 09:21:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever gone out with a man who got jealous because you watched a movie that you found most of the men it to be quite cute?

2007-03-16 09:21:36 · 8 answers · asked by kitty kitty 3 in Singles & Dating

How much are tou or did you pay for your wedding cake?? and how many people did it feed?

2007-03-16 09:21:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i graduated high school at semester, now i only go for orchestra when ever we have class. i not in college yet, but i because i dont go to school any more, i have no idea how to go about making new friends. i still have some friends from school, but i dont usualy associate with them out side of class. im usualy too shy and reserved, and i hardly ever have real good friends, what do u suggest?

2007-03-16 09:21:12 · 3 answers · asked by Kane69 3 in Friends

How do you deal with a man who is more moody then most girls? Do you give him more space? Or do you get closer and try to comfort him more in a physical manner or etc?

2007-03-16 09:20:32 · 8 answers · asked by kitty kitty 3 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl a lot and she knows it, but I can tell she just wants to be friends, which is cool, but I'm not giving up yet, I just need some help because I'm sooooooo nice to her and her friends, And I'm kind of shy which sucks. But I can tell she kind of feels bad for me, because I'm really shy, I do have friends though. I don't want her to feel bad for me because I think I'm too nice to her and her friends. when they need rides I'm always available, When they need something I buy them that thing. I might go to a movie tonight with her and her friends, How can I overcome my shyness??? I hate being shy, Its not helping me at all because I just got done talking on the phone with this girl that I like and she did most of the talking and when she stopped talking there was an awkward silence and then she said she had to go. what should I do about not only tonight and talking to her, but just hanging out with her in general?

thanks

2007-03-16 09:20:11 · 8 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Singles & Dating

But we are still really good freiends ?

2007-03-16 09:20:06 · 8 answers · asked by aaliyah' 1 in Singles & Dating

Why or why not? Keep in mind that you already know the guy, and have nice conversations with him.....

2007-03-16 09:19:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

feminism has turned every action into sexual harrassment, and expectations of people have been nourished by hollywood. Now women and men litterally dream of fiction in their lives, so live lives of unhappiness, wishing for more.

if this goes on much longer, we are definitely all f**ked and extinction will eventually occur.
me, I blame the cold.

I guess we are screwed

2007-03-16 09:19:02 · 12 answers · asked by chocolateknight69 3 in Singles & Dating

what are you shy about?

2007-03-16 09:18:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 09:18:35 · 3 answers · asked by aaliyah' 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-16 09:18:28 · 13 answers · asked by d3s 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm a guys and I have a best friend that I have known for more tha 10 years. He has a steady girlfriend for about 1 year now. Sometimes we still hang out just the two us. A lot of the time we we hang out he wants to so to strip clubs where you can get lap dances with contact with the girl. He usually has at least two girls dance for him. Now he says his girlfriend is aware and that she is OK with that.

Should I just leave it at that? Are most girls OK with this?

2007-03-16 09:18:09 · 22 answers · asked by jackjack 1 in Singles & Dating

hello everyone-
does anyone have a good idea for what i could get my fiancee for our 1 year anniversay. i don't want it to be to expensive because we're saving up for a wedding, honeymoon and house.. thanks

2007-03-16 09:17:54 · 7 answers · asked by stephanie 6 in Weddings

ok im in high school and i never talk to this one girl but suddenly one day we both got saturday schools and she asked me when it was and stuff then sometimes she just comes up and says hi and during class today she walked by my desk and tapped my shoulder?????

2007-03-16 09:17:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I thought this guy, who is a year older, liked me and showed many signs of liking me- fliting, smiling, checking me out, talking to me, waiting for me after class, but I heard from my friend's friend that he liked another girl... what is going on???

2007-03-16 09:17:52 · 15 answers · asked by lovepink8080 2 in Singles & Dating

im not sure what to do, are daddies kinda not so healthy to start a relationship with?

2007-03-16 09:17:44 · 2 answers · asked by maddy 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, i am just wondering here! (cuz i don't want to get heartbroken) AGAIN! There is this guy( in 1/6 of my classes) I always thought he was cute but NEVER ever thought of liking him until our seats changed(assigned) and he was right next to me. SO u no at the time i was like "ok, w/e" then he started talking to me, looking at me when we were reading and coming up to me in the halls(three times) We have a lot in common and i think he sees that, but i caught him looking at my friend. so that makes me unsure. my other friend said that he has f lirted w/me b4 and i just haven't realized it. so i was like well maybe he likes me, then i was like maybe i like him. because when he was gone today i was sad. lol BUT then i remembered, maybe im just wrong. i don't want to get heartbroken.

2007-03-16 09:17:28 · 1 answers · asked by Lexi W 1 in Singles & Dating