I'm a guys and I have a best friend that I have known for more tha 10 years. He has a steady girlfriend for about 1 year now. Sometimes we still hang out just the two us. A lot of the time we we hang out he wants to so to strip clubs where you can get lap dances with contact with the girl. He usually has at least two girls dance for him. Now he says his girlfriend is aware and that she is OK with that.
Should I just leave it at that? Are most girls OK with this?
2007-03-16 09:18:09 · 22 answers · asked by jackjack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not.. thats disgusting...
2007-03-16 09:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is a guy so boys will be boys he is just trying to have fun most girls are ok with this if there not serious about the guy but guys need to be careful cause if they really care about tha girl there with and keep on messing around the girl will just start doing tha same thing or move on and find someopne who cares about them and dosent mess around.
2007-03-16 09:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by Queen ♥[Bee]♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me he is not getting what he would like and that is why he chooses strip-clubs as for her being OK with it makes me think she doesn't want to give it up and if the clubs make him happy then she doesn't have to. It is kinda weird. And NO all girls are not alright with this kind of behavior, I certainly am not.
2007-03-16 09:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by Steffy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that you should at least mention to your friend by saying that he should think about what he is doing since he has gf and that no matter what his gf is probably not ok with but she just said it.
And MOST girls wouldn't be ok with their boyfriends going to a strip club to get lapdances.
I wouldn't be okay with it that is just wrong
2007-03-17 02:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just leave it at that. That is between your friend and her...sounds like she is trusting and open minded, has a good heart and is loyal. As long as your friend doesn't have sex and go home with the strippers/lap dancers then I think it should be ok. But, your friend may just be making that up that she is 'ok' with that. Every girl is different. It may be a fantasy for her...for her to do that for him when he goes home to her. Who knows...none of your business.
2007-03-16 09:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...I know that I am not OK with that..I thin kthat if u r someones significant other, u should not be lookig or feeling other people (u shouldnt even want to) I say talk to ur best friend and get it all straighten out...he could just be addicted to these strip clubs and that is not healthy (that is what a good friend would do)
Good Luck
2007-03-16 09:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to loose a 10 year relationship go ahead! tell the chick... if you don't wanna then tell the guy that you don't feel comfortable going to strip club knowing that he has a girl friend waiting on him.... and if a girl is stupid enough to be okay with this then dude she has a serious problem!
2007-03-16 09:25:49 · answer #7 · answered by Wenke_91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is ok with this then leave it be. But your with him and if you see him crossing the line with these dance girls, then maybe you should say something to him, but as long as he's being faithful, and he's not hiding it any longer and she's ok with it, then what's a little fun.
2007-03-16 09:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Of course leave it at that. Why is his relationship yours to question?
2. No, 100% of the women out there are NOT ok with this. They tell the man this to see if they will do these things if they are given free will.
3. When the relationship gets serious, say goodbye to the porn, and all that freaky stuff.
4. It is none of your business, stay out of it.
2007-03-16 09:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, come on! He is lying to you and to his girlfriend.
Girls are definitely not OK with this.
Picture this: Would you feel fine if you knew your girlfriend liked going to strip clubs and just watching naked guys?
I don't think so.
2007-03-16 09:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by amelie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about MOST girls, but Hell no! I wonder what her motive is in being in the relationship with him. I will not be happy with my husband BF - when I was dating- going to strip joints!
2007-03-16 09:22:13 · answer #11 · answered by Popsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋