I know this sounds like a dumb question but here is my situation: I have a boyfriend who is really into sports. He plays basketball all the time and works out pretty much every day. I on the other hand don't play any sports. I do go to the gym a few times a week and I'm not overweight or anything, and I also know alot about sports and am able to have a conversation about it. All of his other girlfriends have been cheerleaders, basketball players etc and I think I'm the first one that I know of that isnt a sports star. He tells me he likes me more than he has ever liked anyone but sometimes I worry that in the back of his mind that he will start to dislike the fact that I am not very athletic and go find another girl that is. I would do anything for this boy and I really dont want to lose him so I was wondering if other guys think that a girl should play sports?
2007-03-16 09:29:24 · 6 answers · asked by ---- 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he doesn't like u 4 the way u r then he ain't worth the trouble
2007-03-24 09:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Phil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I don't think they should play sports. If all men thought that and their women did, then all women would play sports. How dumb would that be. It's ok to play but not a requirement. You are leaps and bounds above most girls when it comes to sports. You can talk about it and don't mind and go to the gym. It sounds like he has a winner and you are just being paranoid. If he hasn't said anything about it don't worry about. If it an't broke don't try to fix it!
2007-03-24 02:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by keith g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay well hopefully he isn't lying about how he likes you much more than anyone else and they all were "athletes" and so if you don't think he's lying then I think you're ok.
Since you're able to carry a convo. with him about sports then I think that is probably enough. If he is really into and YOU ARE GOING OUT WITH HIM he already knows you don't play any sports. :D
I hope this help, it is just preference of the guy and girl.
2007-03-16 09:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by redhead7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope i dont think it matters much, although it would be a plus if you did play sports. He likes you for your personality, not what you do. So dont worry!
2007-03-16 09:36:27 · answer #4 · answered by =P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are an individual. that makes u special. what int rests someone else does not mean you should be that way. do what u want. have respect for yourself. never compare yourself with someone else.
2007-03-24 02:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by bern g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its not
2007-03-24 02:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by beth b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋