Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

i work as a nanny... never had any problems
the parents a pretty nice but we are not close to each other
a while ago there dad started to want to hug me when he says hi and bye
it was kind of wierd but i though maybe it's because we know each other for 2 years already, so i try to take it easy ...
anyways it kind of freaks me out
now some weeks after that... one day he hugged me and pulled me in a different direction, like kind of out of the room.
so i asked him what happened
and he said :" hug" so i hugged him very unpersonly and try to take off
but he helld me and said :"kiss"
ok my God
i was so shocked that i didn;t say anything and just left.
so he said :"oh yea, we shouldn't do that hein? yea, my wifes dad is coming back to in a few days (the dad lifes with them)"
i just said yea and try to avoid him
after he was very quiet and didn;t say anything and just said bye.
oh my God
i feel so disgusted. i don't know what to do. i love the kids and don;t want to leave them.

2007-03-15 10:23:33 · 4 answers · asked by 237kk 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and i wrote him a note asking him if he wanted to go out with me and he wrote back saying he realy did not want a gf right now and they he never sees me well i wrote him back saying that i do see him and then i saw him in one of my classes and i still like him but i cant figure out if he likes me or not and like every day i see him he always stares at me but never talks to me what should i do?

2007-03-15 10:23:16 · 15 answers · asked by elena p 1 in Singles & Dating

im trying to send flowers to a girl i live in tx. and she lives in illinois. is there a site to send flowers? any ideas?

2007-03-15 10:22:56 · 12 answers · asked by deaftonez 2 in Singles & Dating

i cant stop crying coz all the memories and everything i knew have been taken away from me.. everything i ever felt for my ex and more all the dreams we had are gone and i am left with this hole where my heart used to be.. noone feels the same.. i cant get over him coz i really did and i think still do love him.. and i can see what everyone says he is mental and a lier and he treat me wrong but he even now its over he still playing me..
i want him and he knows it.. he is still seeing girls even the ones im friends with and he says he is confused about his feeling so he doesn't know if he wants/loves me.. i cant go on like this anymore.. not seeing him kills .. seeing him kills..
i smile all day long pretend that everything is perfect but on the inside it all falls apart.
why cants i let it go...is it because he was my first true love..
will i never let it go..
i cant seem to imagine myself with anyone else.. its strange
all this free time that i used to see him in.. feels so alone.

2007-03-15 10:22:54 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do young woman really go for older man? and if so why?

As an older man I find I'm alway chasing young woman. I like that thay are full of life and just have fun all the time.

Just looking for some in-put here, let me know what you think.

2007-03-15 10:22:43 · 5 answers · asked by denny 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been brought up an only child, and was used to getting my way. I've been with my fiance for over a year, but i have a problem letting go of that "it's gonna be my way" attitute. As much as i want him to be the dominant one in the relationship, i love the control also. He's very submissive, so he doesn't seem to mind, but i know it's horrible for our relationship. How can i learn to let him have some control, and still be happy?

p.s. wow, i know i sound like a total b****, but i'm not really. We compromise on big things, but i want my way on little things (ex. what's for dinner)

2007-03-15 10:22:24 · 12 answers · asked by Andii 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So um my friend ash is really scared and doesnt know what to do....this guy (one of our other friends) j. cut her name into his leg, and put a skull under it (like cut with a razor) and he has been acting really possessive and protective of her lately and they arent even dateing...he asked her out and she hasnt answered yet because she thinks he's too unstable to have a gf .....I told her to be careful because he could get overly possessive and do something to her....what should i do? should i confront him about it? talk to her and him? or just tell the princable?

2007-03-15 10:21:08 · 13 answers · asked by blair 2 in Friends

ok so i'm 14 years old and i'm have the biggest crush on my step brother who is 16 years old. the deal is my mom and his dad arent really married yet there engaged about to get married so my question is is it wrong for me to like my step brother i would like any and all opinions. thanks

2007-03-15 10:21:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

About two years ago, I was on the subway, and this girl that looked to be about sixteeen was on there with her two boys. The baby was about 2 years old. She would make him laugh, then slap him to get him to cry. The train was crowded, and I am ashamed to say, none of us did anything. Should I have done something, or did I do the right thing by not interfering. (I wanted to slap her really badl).

2007-03-15 10:20:49 · 26 answers · asked by Mrs. E 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK, experienced, less experienced people, virgins.....anybody who feels like answering this question I want to hear your opinion...
do you think sex is great for your health? I say hell yes....and it is a good exercise...
What do you think is the worst thing that can happen after sex...I`d say it is when you parter turns his/her back to you and falls asleep, it never happened to me and i hope it never will, but i think that ain`t nice....
what do u say?

2007-03-15 10:20:48 · 22 answers · asked by terracotta 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 10:20:44 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this morning i went to brush my teeth and saw my toothbrush lying on the sink TOUCHING an ear waxy cotton wool bud that my husband had used to clean his ears out with, and if that wasnt bad enough, he had obviously used my toothbrush as well. should i divorce him?

2007-03-15 10:20:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and he's obiously younger

2007-03-15 10:19:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm thinking abouty moving back home with my dad, my brother lives there too, but anyways i live with my boyfriend he is nice and all but lately i am not feeling him. When he comes up to me to kiss me i often feel a like i dont want to. i dont think i am attracted to him anymore. i cant afford to get my own place right now because i am a student and only have part time job. I feel kind of weird too because i am 32 years old

2007-03-15 10:19:12 · 8 answers · asked by GirlyWorld 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been married 11 years and been together for a total of 14 yrs. We have 3 beautiful children. I fully support her financially. I work 80plus hours a week and she stays home and mothers our children. She loves me and I know this with all my heart. She says she's bisexual and that she would never leave me. I believe her. Should we try to work through this or should we seek counseling? I feel no negative feelings about her being bi. It would be good for her since I cannot be there physically for her all the time. Am I being too naive about this?

2007-03-15 10:18:57 · 30 answers · asked by Felipe S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I talked and we decided that we are both unhappy, not alot of love in the relationship anymore. I guess I am asking if there has been anyone else in this type of situation and what did you do to fix it?
I have been thinking of seperating for a while to see what happens, we also have two kids 8 and 5 I am a nervous wreck to bring it up, I am afaraid of failing if I did leave. I am looking for opinions, or suggestions to either stay or go if I stay I figure whats the point, life is to short to be unhappy and not giving him the love he deserves and vice versa.

2007-03-15 10:18:39 · 16 answers · asked by Tammy N 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-15 10:18:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It wasnt physical fighting..just talk fight. So that was all after 3rd period. So after school my friend comes up to me and says "She asked for your number, but I gave her a random number"...why would she want my number? Is she gonna be a fucckkkin a bitcchhh again? cause I'll just be ready to ruin her hopeless life.

2007-03-15 10:18:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

eversince my dad died my mother sister and i have been sharing a 1 bedroom apartment. it is very small, broken down and mice invested. i dont know what else to do, other than to ask for help. please somebody help us!..i am at my wits end, i dont know where to turn anymore. but we cannot continue living here.

2007-03-15 10:18:01 · 4 answers · asked by LaceyMittens 1 in Family

i have tried everything i can think of i have bought everything the stores has for that to help but nothing i have tried works.can someone please help me.

2007-03-15 10:16:43 · 13 answers · asked by scooby31558 1 in Family

i am not married but i just want to know.Please tell that how does it feels for boy and girl.

2007-03-15 10:16:20 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-15 10:16:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a female, 18 years old and yeah, I don't know what I'm telling it but this might help answering.
Did you ever call your dad names just because he was being mean to your mum and being really impolite and just a total loser? Well I did.. and I don't know if I should feel guilty, I'm not anyway. I used to think hey I'm lucky for having a dad some don't.. but what is the use when he's never there when I'm sad angry or upset? or he never asks me about my future plans? I really don't care anymore.. should I just move from here with my mom and get a job to give her every happiness or stay in this house and show him what I'm capable of infront of his eyes? I know people won't really like to meet us if we got separated, no one likes broken families.. I just don't know if I should stay or step away and take my mother out of this hellhole, would it make things better for her?

2007-03-15 10:16:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

me and my boyfriend have known each other for a while and im a year and a half older than him he tells me that he luvs me do u think he means it or do u think he means it but since we are young its just really like?

2007-03-15 10:16:04 · 18 answers · asked by mandy 1 in Singles & Dating

I had this really cool friend a couple years back unfortunatley we lost contact. Whats the best way to go about looking for this friend?

2007-03-15 10:15:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There have been times where I've stopped considering other women, but generally I still look at an attractive woman if she walks past. If I was really in love would I not do this?

2007-03-15 10:15:55 · 4 answers · asked by pantocool 1 in Singles & Dating

My niece lives with her mother and wants to now live with her grandmother. Her mother and father divorced several years ago and the mother got custody. She does not have a good life at home and for several reasons can not live with her father. Her father has agreed to sign the emancipation papers but my niece fears her mother will not. There is both mental and physical abuse going on in the home but the local authorities just seem to want to ignore it. I have known her mother for years and I do believe she is capable of what the daughter says. No, my niece is not innocent but she has had a good teacher. She has done some bad things in the past but she seems to want to turn her life around. She hasn't done anything terrible, just the running around with boys and staying out too late thing. The problem is, she is 15 and has been told that both parents will have to sign. Is there any way to get around that? We really just need some info to get us pushed into the right direction.

2007-03-15 10:15:05 · 2 answers · asked by sissyt2915 2 in Family

2007-03-15 10:14:49 · 23 answers · asked by Lorrie B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I usually have a sleepover with my best friend every friday and saturday and I want to try something different. Any Ideas?

2007-03-15 10:14:06 · 5 answers · asked by MJ 2 in Friends

2007-03-15 10:14:01 · 7 answers · asked by ~latina baby#1~ 1 in Singles & Dating