i like this guy and i wrote him a note asking him if he wanted to go out with me and he wrote back saying he realy did not want a gf right now and they he never sees me well i wrote him back saying that i do see him and then i saw him in one of my classes and i still like him but i cant figure out if he likes me or not and like every day i see him he always stares at me but never talks to me what should i do?
2007-03-15 10:23:16 · 15 answers · asked by elena p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he is not interested 0_o
2007-03-15 10:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by Shakespeare, William 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is always better to let the guy pursue you....that way you don't have to wonder. However, in this case, I bet he is staring because he is wondering about whether he might could like you or trying to figure it out.
Just be cool about it. Don't talk to him, call or text him. Leave him alone and let him do his figuring. Sometimes a guy has to watch a while to see how he is feeling. If you act cool about it and not needy and pleading, then he is more likely to decide your a great girl.
2007-03-15 10:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by Hope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, interesting predicament...he would try talking to you or coming near you if he really did. Maybe he's just trying to be a jerk and feel good about himself. But, you should really stop writing letters. He could end up showing it to his friends and you'll end up the desperate girl who likes him. But...because he hasn't done that...i'm not totally sure. Maybe he does like you, and really isn't ready for a relationship.
2007-03-15 10:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by Isabella R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone and if he is interested he will let you know. some men may not want a woman to approach them first. a friend and i worked with this guy and she initiated contact and gave him her number. he later told me(when he was trying to get my number mind you) that he didnt like when women did that by coming on so strong.
2007-03-15 10:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by Thyk L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, i would always let the guy ask you out before you do. and it seems that if he is always starin at ya then he either has a thing for you or you got something on your face. but i think you should like say hi or something at first, ya don't wanna creep the boy out or nothin....
2007-03-15 10:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by blonde@♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try the ignore method ignore non obviously and see if he comes to you and if he does then you have found a guy that likes you back
2007-03-15 10:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by juicyjunebug14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently he doesn't like you. You seem to be making this an obsession and i would let it go before you really scare him off.
2007-03-15 10:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just feeling it's awkward. wondering if he actually likes you.
wait a few days
and just casually talk to him.
maybe you might be able to tell then?
2007-03-15 10:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ask him one more time otherwise leave it.
2007-03-15 10:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be playin games w/ ur head or he could just not like you !
2007-03-15 10:28:53 · answer #10 · answered by {to cloose is close enough} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋