Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

I used to like this one guy, and we never once had a relationship. And then suddenly I found out he liked my best friend and she liked him too. It was bad, and it hurt. This gave me the idea that I should avoid love until I'm old enough to handle it, and that's probably what I should have done, but instead I fell in love with this guy who I hardly knew and then when I actually got to know him, he was kind of a jerk. But for some reason I found that attractive and dived into what I knew was wrong to begin with. He showed all these mixed signals and one day I thought he liked me, and the next he seemed to hate me. And then I stumbled into this HUGE embarrassing moment in front of him and now I'm thinking I should run from it all; move on and leave the whole thought of liking him behind. And it's so hard. I'm not even sure whether I should have or not, because I REALLY don't want to go through this AGAIN. So am I doing the right thing? What if this is a mistake and we were supposed to be?

2007-03-14 14:43:05 · 2 answers · asked by AnneMarie 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this girl for over a year and in june I will be moving to where she is. We've been talking about marriage and I am thinking about proposing, what is a womans best or highly favored cut for a 2 carat diamond?

2007-03-14 14:43:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My brother ls missing he left at 7 and hes on probationvso he nows his curfew is 8-ovclock and he cant be anywhere here i called my grandmas and my aunts where he would be but hes not there and he has problems with his friends so he isnt hanging out with any of them and im soo worried hes 14 and its 9:42 here what should i do should ivwait an hour and call the police i dunno what to do???? give me some advice please

2007-03-14 14:43:02 · 4 answers · asked by daniel p 1 in Family

I have been dating this girl for over a year and in june I will be moving to where she is. We've been talking about marriage and I am thinking about proposing, what is a womans best or highly favored cut for a 2 carat diamond?

2007-03-14 14:42:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

this is the second time we have broke up because i lied, she said the only way she will get back with me is if i prove to her that i am trustworthy and that i wont lie to her any more. i really love this girl, and im not going to lie to her anymore, but how can i prove it to her?

2007-03-14 14:40:53 · 19 answers · asked by chad h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and I want to avoid getting caught drinking

2007-03-14 14:40:30 · 7 answers · asked by johndoe10101 1 in Friends

i have been dating this guy for 4 months but have been messing around for 3 years. i moved in with him before we became official but i feel that he only asked me to be his girlfriend because he seen that i was gettinge really close to another guy because he was never really ready for a relationship! shortly after dating i found out that he has been doing some heavy flirting with girls online after he promised that he would stop for the 3rd time. now he feels that it would be best that we live in separate homes! i don't mind doing this because i miss having my own space but i feel that he only wants to do this so that he can continue to flirt with women! i was thinking that if we do this, then i would need to end the relationship because i feel that i can't trust him because me being away from him would drive me nuts! or am i just overreacting?

2007-03-14 14:40:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

no gun shots or cutting vanes plz lol

i dont wanna die yet hahahaa

2007-03-14 14:39:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

loli didnt make myself clear last time sorry

2007-03-14 14:37:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife allows me to have other women once a month, but complains that I ask her to stay somewhere else that night, such as at her sister's. She's promised to remain quiet and unobtrusive if she can remain in our house, but I'm not keen. What do other couples do?

2007-03-14 14:37:41 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-14 14:37:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she acts as if im the devil himself, she cant stop telling people how much she hates me. She identifies me out of a crowd really easily and shes always trying to dodge me like if im walking by, shes walking the other way. She purposley looks away when im in her eyesight. Could she still like me (shes my ex)?

2007-03-14 14:37:05 · 4 answers · asked by big e 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 14:36:56 · 8 answers · asked by Broken 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 14:35:32 · 29 answers · asked by crazyplay 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think my boyfriend would be freaked out if i suddenly asked if we could get some porn? Im a very visually turned on person, i LOVE mirrors in the bedroom, but i have been with my boyfriend almost 5 years now and think that this would come as a shock to him. Do you think he would find it insulting if i asked to bring porn into our lives, like he would feel he wasnt good enough? or do you think he will be excited at the idea. He watches porn when i am out of town, as do i, so its not like its new to us.

2007-03-14 14:34:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 14:34:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 and am friends with two groups of girls. They're both fun to be around but I usually only hang out with a few of them every weekend, especially one of my best friends.(I have 2 others, the other one I hang out with also, and the other one lives in Cali now) My mom noticed this and thinks it's abnormal. I think she thinks I don't have many friends or am not popular at school, but everybody likes me, I just don't hang out with all of them. What should I do--it's made me feel more and more insecure about me & my friends and how I 'should' be living my life with them, to the point where I think about it 5 or more times a day. It really depresses me sometimes, too. Please help.

2007-03-14 14:34:27 · 3 answers · asked by Colette B. 2 in Friends

My fiance's inlaws are freakin nuts! I honestly don't know how to handle most of their comments or some of the situations i'm put in. I've always been the quiet type and not really speak my mind, but i'm getting to the point where I HAVE to with these weirdos. First of all, they're really nosey. They have to put their two cents into everything including my own personal family relations. They went behind my fiance's back and arranged everything with his ex to get his son for visitation and never consulted us about it. His 2 year old nephew still nurses off of his mother and it really bothers me because now i'm scared to nurse when i have my baby thinking it's sick. They also give their toddlers alcohol when they ask for it. The kids are allowed to have cigarettes in their mouth, run around with steak knifes, sharp objects, basically they run the house hold not the parents, but when we have structure with my fiance's 3 yr old, we're considered bad parents and mean! am i missing something

2007-03-14 14:32:29 · 10 answers · asked by Natalie's Mommy 3 in Family

Even working women 'stay' at home, they never go out and have any kind of fun. These SAHM also have an abbreviation for their husband, DH (commonly known as Dumb Husband) why don't they call him their WM (Working Man) or GTWH (Go To Work Husband)?

2007-03-14 14:32:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have friend who just can't seem to get a girl. he's the nicest guy i've ever meet if he had a girl he would be the type of guy who gets you flowers and chocolates and plans perfect dates on a regular basis. His main problem is he does'nt exactly have a chiseled body, he's 6 feet tall and weighs 130. I even took him to the gym but it didn't work and after 6 months of frustration he gave up. he asked this one girl but she turned him down and now he has no confidence, I feel so bad for the guy because he's probably one of the few good guys i've met. considering i myself am really not it makes me feel bad about a lot things i take for granted when it comes to women. Is there a way?

2007-03-14 14:32:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 14:31:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-14 14:31:43 · 18 answers · asked by lauren s 1 in Family

ok... so i was dreaming that i was with this guy who i love to death (he doesnt know that) and in the dream, we were hugging and there were 2 or 3 little kids that looked like us running around! did i dream about the future?

2007-03-14 14:30:02 · 5 answers · asked by HarryPotters_gurl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

, it is kind of silly question , but i don't have that much experience , when i am hard , and try to wear the condom , i am loosing my erection , am i supposed to wear it few seconds before the intercours or suppose to wear it before and then wait till get hard again , it is kind of silly but it confusing me , couse sometimes i am thinking that i ve got phesical problem , sorry for my bad english writting

2007-03-14 14:29:58 · 1 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a really bad shyness problem. I am 15 years old, male, in 10th grade. I have a few friends and i am good friends with them, but there are so many things I want to do but cannot because i am shy/embarrassed. I cannot live this way, as i have moved three times in the past three years, een to thre different schools and i do not know where i will be going next. Please, i need a solution for my terrible shyness.

2007-03-14 14:29:32 · 15 answers · asked by bonycask 2 in Singles & Dating

CHILDREN ARE YOUNG ADULTS NOW DOING THEIR THING. AND I'M ALONE HOW DO I BEGAN DATING. MY EX HAS BEEN THE ONLY ONE. AND I'M AFRAID WHAT I MAY ENCOUNTER OUT THERE. I TRUST TOO EASILY AND I DON'T WANT TO GET HURT. PLEASE NEED YOUR HONEST ANSWERS. I'M 44 YRS. OLD I AM NOT BAD LOOKING (ATTRACTIVE) I DIDN'T DATE BECAUSE I DEDICATED MY LIFE TO MY KIDS... HELP PLEASE

2007-03-14 14:29:13 · 19 answers · asked by Ana 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was wondering because the dude i like has a lot more money than me.

2007-03-14 14:29:00 · 16 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 in Singles & Dating

Do you think that is a curs on your relatinship? Personally I do not believe in superstitions my husband already has my name on his back

2007-03-14 14:28:37 · 29 answers · asked by T_S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-14 14:28:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have difficulty in attracting or talking to women WAT TO DO IN TREAT THIS PROBLEM!! HOW TO BE SEEN AS MORE THAN JUST A FRIEND TO GIRL ON NET I MEAN ACROOS CHATTING ROOMS AFTER SERVEL nmeeting & months i spend i hate to be just a passer by or to be a friend i want to be more & ASLO IN THE LIFE TIME IIIf if a woman see me as a "just a friend"can i be seen some else i mean wat can i do to change this soory is ISS being nice and polite and appropriate, etc. By the way nice" behavior only serves to create in women the feeling of BOREDOM. or wat how to solve this problemm There's a woman in my life whom I'm close to and I would like there to be more than friendship between us. She's a bit older than me and we've known each other for a few months on and off. Just over aweek ago she ask me dont u lik me i dont say i like her but i say i will ask my heart !should i tell her that i like her so or wait tell she say s it first how to make her so happy all the time ?i meet her on nettt & we know each other across net not in life i mean i dont meet her coz she is so far from mee i want to make feel specail & alot things i dont want lose her at anything wat can i do !!!!!!!

2007-03-14 14:27:56 · 1 answers · asked by totyplay_2005 1 in Friends