I'm 14 and am friends with two groups of girls. They're both fun to be around but I usually only hang out with a few of them every weekend, especially one of my best friends.(I have 2 others, the other one I hang out with also, and the other one lives in Cali now) My mom noticed this and thinks it's abnormal. I think she thinks I don't have many friends or am not popular at school, but everybody likes me, I just don't hang out with all of them. What should I do--it's made me feel more and more insecure about me & my friends and how I 'should' be living my life with them, to the point where I think about it 5 or more times a day. It really depresses me sometimes, too. Please help.
2007-03-14 14:34:27 · 3 answers · asked by Colette B. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your mom should understand that you comfortable with your own group of friends and that it is not easy to find friends that is compatible to you. Anyways, keep your options open. Maybe try to meet new friends around your neighbourhood and maybe your mom can see that you are trying to widen your circle of friends. But do be cautious as they are still strangers, try not to divulge much information about yourself and family and school as you would not know if they have good intentions or not. The bottomline is: Make friends and be cool.
2007-03-14 14:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get along with girl better then boys then so you have friends that just happens to be girls. There really no problem with having friends that are girls.
2007-03-14 21:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by C.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about what your mom thinks, if you like you're friends and you know they would all be there for you, you've got it good! sometimes mothers just don't understand how everything works...it's not like when they "were young" (actually they probably don't remember very well...)
2007-03-14 21:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by lizzyhappy2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋