this is the second time we have broke up because i lied, she said the only way she will get back with me is if i prove to her that i am trustworthy and that i wont lie to her any more. i really love this girl, and im not going to lie to her anymore, but how can i prove it to her?
2007-03-14 14:40:53 · 19 answers · asked by chad h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Odds are if you have lied to her twice, you'll lie to her again. She knows that too. If you stop lying to her for good, in time, she might believe you and trust you again....but it will take time.
2007-03-14 14:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
nicely that first answer replaced right into a touch harsh lol in spite of the undeniable fact that the tattoo idea? no longer a sturdy bypass in any respect dude :/ You sound like you're grieving on the prompt and look exceedingly desirous to do what ever it takes to win her back. those very last ditch tries are *very* unattractive to the man you attempt to win back and it makes you look to be a loser. i know, because i have been there too... You *may* ought to face as a lot because the actual undeniable actuality that the way you mistreated her has left her feeling exceedingly $h*tty too - and she basically would not want you any more beneficial :( i imagine possibly your best chance of proving to her that you adore her? settle for defeat - tell her that that's because you adore her so that you may enable her get on including her existence, that you're sorry for what you position her by and could be standard for some thing else of your existence, and that you desire she meets someone it truly is sturdy for her - and if he mistreats her the way you probably did, you'll kick his a$$. tacky isn't it?? yet you not in any respect know, words to that impression may make her a minimum of be civil with you. yet you'll know if she replies "yeah sturdy riddance" then there'll not in any respect be any desire for you 2. best of success dude
2016-12-02 00:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twice burned, three times shy. The only way to prove it to her is bit by bit, over time. There is no other way to do it. Always tell the truth, no matter how difficult it may be at times. That way you may do a lot of dumb things, but she knows no matter what, you will never lie to her about it. Being honest in every way is the only answer.
2007-03-14 14:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lie is not as hard as it seems on not to do. In everyones eye's once a lier always a lier . But in your case it's only up to you to stop what your doin for example: 1) you say you will pick her up from work!
a) You even please her even more stop
you plans&be their 15-20mn ealry(thatshowsucare)
2)she ask if like her dress(knowing u don't)!
A)U tell her u like&miss the dress she whore when u first started dating &plus you'll look even sexier if she wore than that one.(hoping she can still fit it)
B)U tell her you prefer that she would show off her sexybody.
C)U go out and buy her a dress by yourself(know her size) picking out the one u like.(so next time you'll be prepared and ready so you'll say wear the one I Just bought u.
"HEY @ LEAST YOU"RE TELLING THE TRUTH"
2007-03-14 15:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by karmalexia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only prove it to her by action. You need to live up to your promise. She is not going to trust you right away, because you blew it twice. In time if you keep to your word, it will become easier for her to trust you, but you do need to understand that it isn't going to happen overnight. It is easy to trust someone when they haven't broken the trust. Once you have tried again and had it broken again, it is harder to just go and do it. She has to protect her heart here, and even though you are sincere, she has to see those actions.
2007-03-14 14:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very hard to promise as we are human and human can make mistakes. But what I can suggest you assure to is that you can tell her that you will not lie and if she is an adult, she should take it . Otherwise, it would be a very childish behaviour when you promise and cannot keep it. So don't put yourself in trouble.
2007-03-14 14:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't lie. lying is a choice. before you get back with her, figure out why you lied in the first place. fear of commitment? unresolved anger issues? either way, you need to grow up and be a man if you want to keep her.
2007-03-14 15:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never be a man until your honest with women. If you're cheating on her then you don't love her and you're letting your small head do your thinking. Never good. Be true and be honest with her and your relationship will be armor plated. Screw her over and I promise you, some day you'll get that thrown back at you when you least expect it.
2007-03-14 14:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by clayp72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't prove it any other way than by not lying to her. I have caught my husband in lies, big ones, and it's taught me not to trust everything he says. It's a really crappy way to go through a relationship, and life.
2007-03-14 14:44:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about being a real man and being honest with your girlfriend at ALL TIMES! If my boyfriend lied to me once, I'd kick his a** to the curb. Count yourself lucky she's giving you another chance.
2007-03-14 14:58:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋