My wife allows me to have other women once a month, but complains that I ask her to stay somewhere else that night, such as at her sister's. She's promised to remain quiet and unobtrusive if she can remain in our house, but I'm not keen. What do other couples do?
2007-03-14 14:37:41 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is sad marriage. Marriage is about monogomy. Else what's the point?
2007-03-14 14:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by Jeye 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I guess it is your time to allow her to have other men once a month so she can ask you to go stay somewhere else on that night such as you mom's house or friend that's a good idea mate
2007-03-14 15:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lord Glyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. If you don't have a problem with openly cheating on her, I don't see why you should have a problem with her being around when you do it. There's nothing for you to hide from her; and if she wants to stay, I don't see why you would have a problem with her being around. But this isn't something that either of you should have to deal with. You're asking what other couples do in this situation, but I can't imagine that anyone else deals with this situation in their marriage. You should seek some counseling to work out your problems, because this simply isn't what marriage should be like. In the short term, i agree with your wife, you should allow her to stay.
Good luck!
2007-03-14 14:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by redsox579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when my husband does this and I just don't feel like staying somewhere else, I just pretend I'm the maid or nanny, the stupid other women don't know the difference. That way, he still feels like a real man, and I get to stay at home. Works SO well! Oh, and then I go get the pool boy so us servants can have a good time!! LOL
2007-03-14 14:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you wanted to whore around you should have never gotten married!!! If she promises to keep it hush, hush, you should take the other whores somewhere besides your matrimonial bed. If shes putting up with that kind of crap from you , she is REALLY insecure and scared of being alone. And if you cant cope with being tied down to one woman for the rest of your life, u must think that you are too much man for one woman.. WHICH IS HIGHLY DOUBTFUL!!!!
2007-03-14 15:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by heatherclhn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it always the guilty one who is allowed to stay in the house ? You are the one cheating on your wife and you want her out ? She does allow you to have some adventure because she still loves you but you abuse of her kindness.
You should be the one to go.
It is like these beaten wifes. They are the one to leave the house where it should the men.
2007-03-14 14:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by kl55000 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm amazed that she hasn't kicked your sorry, cheatin' butt to the curb. She may 'allow' you to have other women once a month, but I doubt she's only upset that she has to stay somewhere else. You're having sex with other women in her bed. Straighten yourself up or you might have a Lorraina Bobbet on your hands. Not that I could blame her....
2007-03-14 14:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you don't really need a wife. I mean what's the point? If you like variety then marriage is not for you and she should definitely not stay-or come back.
2007-03-14 14:54:31 · answer #8 · answered by StormyC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you are married then you are breaking the "Forsaking all others" rule, tsk tsk......however, if your wife has agreed to allow you extra marital affairs, the least you could do is meet her half way and agree for her to stay in "HER OWN HOUSE". Who knows, one day she may want to join you in one of your activities.
You can't just take take in this world. You have to give a little to get a little.
2007-03-14 14:45:56 · answer #9 · answered by Shantelle G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must be a real man. NOBODY else does this!!!!! You should be ashamed of yourself for taking advantage of her. She should also grow a backbone and kick your *** to the curb. I would NEVER allow this to go on in my house. Furthermore, my husband would NEVER want to do this. This is just proof that some men are real pigs.
2007-03-14 15:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by country girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say what a jerk you are...but she ALLOWS it. You two need to just date, not be married. Marriage should be bw one man and one women; cliche or not. But...if she's dumb enough to allow this, you mind as well do what ever else you want to do...set her on her way while she lets you get it on with another chick.
Good luck and get tested...biweekly (no telling what she's doing herself)!!!
2007-03-14 14:55:49 · answer #11 · answered by YaShen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋