On a normal day, sex is so-so. Most of the time I'll just let him finish and we'll be done. But, on the weekend he was extremely intoxicated and sex was amazing! It kept me wanting more and more all weekend. I understand you're less inhibited when you're drunk etc, but he's not generally an inhibited person. I suppose he's not all that experienced in bed and I maybe haven't tried teaching him enough new things, but why won't he tell me what he wants? That day he did things he'd never done before, amazing things, I told him how amazing it was, even the next day, but after that he went back to his boring old self in bed. I can't stress enough that I did talk to him about how good it was and how we were both enjoying ourselves, but now it's like he's embarassed at what all we did. I want him to be more adventurous and try new things, but if he's only able to do it when he's intoxicated, does that mean I have to get him drunk whenever I'm really in the mood?
2007-03-14
14:57:21
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