2007-03-14 14:55:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
According to your question you are telling us you have a wife, and only one.... that might be the problem, you need about 24 wives that will take care of all the house tasks, 62 wives for sexual intercourse, and 222 wives working on overall income purposes. Then you shouldn't feel the need to enjoy other women than your "wife". You are welcome.
2007-03-14 15:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by ▌♠ ▌ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is wrong. ask yourself how would you feel if your wife enjoyed other men?
it does not reflect how much you do or do not love your wife.
however, a good marriage requires discipline. when you break the monogamous commitment to your wife, you are carrying around a burden, this effetcs the friendship between you two, even if she doesn't know.
also, the whole family suffers financially with the money spent on indulging in other women. the gifts, dates, hotel rooms, ect. you are putting money into is actually robbing your entire family - that money could be spent or saved.
just like an alcoholic at the bar too often, you are missing out on your family, they are missing your presence at home.
there are many ways this is wrong besides the society's " yes, you jerk" kind of response
2007-03-14 15:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by sherman supporter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, do you care if your wife also enjoys other men? If not and if she does enjoy them, then love each other but go have some careful fun. If, on the other hand, it would kill her to know you wanted to be with other women, well, yeah, I guess it's probably wrong. Sorry
2007-03-14 15:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. John, loving your wife is very sensual but when you say enjoying other women, it's either you love to look or watch them pass by or thinking of how it will be to be in bed with them. Men in general loves to look or watch when a woman, that's not a sin. Even when they're in front of their wife or girlfriend they still look, it happens to me when I'm with my husband, men do look even though that I'm with someone. Now what is it that you want to know, you want to know if its wrong to admire other women, or is it wrong to think if fantasizing to be with other women??....your the only one that will and can answer your question, were here to give our advice the way the question is hand to us...good luck!!
2007-03-14 15:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! You also know it's wrong, otherwise you wouldn't be asking us for our opinions.
How can you even say that you love your wife if you're out doinking other women?!?! Explain to me how that is love? You might say you "love" your wife, but you're certainly not respectful of her otherwise you wouldn't be screwing around.
Sack up, be a man, and either quit seeing other women, or get a divorce and do your wife a favor.
2007-03-14 15:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really that depends on how your wife feels about it ! Some woman would " look the other way " or enjoy other men themselves.....others may not be so " Understanding ".
2007-03-14 15:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by RedHairedTempest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean that you have affairs?
Ask yourself what would happen to your family, wife, marriage.
If nothing would change and everyone would accept it, then no, it's not wrong.
If your wife found out, you broke her heart, got a divorce, and were scorned by your family and friends, then yes.
Or, if your wife enjoyed other men, and it didn't bother you, then no.
2007-03-14 15:03:26 · answer #7 · answered by sct442 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very wrong!! You should love your wife soo much that you would never even consider being with another woman!
2007-03-14 14:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by suzyalexisandgabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you took your vows you promised to remain faithful. If you want to play around, get a divorce and spare her the heartache of knowing you are unfaithful. Put the shoe on the other foot and try it on for size. How would you feel if she came to you and said the same to you?
2007-03-14 15:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that's wrong because your wife loves you,,and you'll always be the one for her...when you get married to someone...you dedicated to her/his you entire life you promised to love her and cherish her...why you looking for someone if you have right in your front right???its normal for a guy to feel that but remember your wife is always waiting for you she trust you...and remember you love her...then when you think that you will never think of other girls...
2007-03-14 15:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by ayashers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋