My ex wants to come to the bar I work at this Saturday to see me. The thing is my new boyfriend always comes with me, to make sure no guys hit on me. I know there might be a fight, and I really do not know what to do about it. Another thing, how can I get my ex to leave my boyfriend and I alone, and also, how can I get him to accept the fact that I have moved on?
2007-03-14 15:04:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm betting you would just love them to fight over you....or you would have told your ex to get lost....or you wouldn't be talking to him in the first place. Sick girl. make us all look bad.
2007-03-14 15:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont like the fact that your boyfriend comes to where you work to watch you. Is there a problem with trust. If your ex comes to that bar ignore him and if your boyfriend gets into a fight then let him deal with it. You boyfriend now should be old enough to know better then that. Im sorry but i just dissagree with him comeing to your work place like you cant take care of yourself. sounds like he is looking for a fight. and that is wrong. Not your fault though. Good luck.
2007-03-14 22:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by valerie s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! Where to start???
1. if you really do not want to see your ex then email him (dont call because with email there is evidence of your communication and if this guy is creepy, you might need all the evidence you can get) tell him you do not want to see him or talk to him and you are absolutely NOT interested in him.
2. any guy who needs to follow his gf to work just "to make sure no guys hit on" you is an insecure loser. Honestly, I much more concerned about him than your ex.
2007-03-14 22:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is tell him to leave you alone, it is over. Tell him to not come to your job. If he comes anyway, ask him to leave or have manager/owner tell him to leave. If he ever gets arrested for stalking and harassment, he will then accept the fact that you have moved on.
2007-03-14 22:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by zack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to tell him strait up to leave you alone. Make it clear that you want nothing to do with him, and suggest that he shouldn't come to the bar. Good luck
2007-03-14 22:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by gotansas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is: pray! Take good care what are you talking with him, be gentle and say that you have a bf and that he must try to have a gf, too. Don't forget to pray every single day, and try to be the best human being ever! Take good care!
2007-03-15 05:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your new boyfriend is too possessive and doesn't trust you. Why would you want your ex to come to your place of employment. Tell him 'no, not interested; I have other interests.'
2007-03-14 22:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by sheba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can be nice and tell him that you don't feel comfortable around him....or if ur ex dumpped u in the first place...make out with ur boyfriend infront of ur ex and them tell him u dont want him near u
2007-03-14 22:10:20 · answer #8 · answered by jazzers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your ex that if he does show up at the bar there will be a police officer to escort him out. Tell him you will get him charged with harrassment.
2007-03-14 22:09:18 · answer #9 · answered by golden tigress 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sit down and talk with your ex , help him find someone that likes the same things he likes like online dating, my sister found her soulmate that way.
2007-03-14 22:11:59 · answer #10 · answered by soccer_baby_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋