i'm so confused. my girlfriend always seems jealous or worrie about something im doing. girls, can you please help me and tell me what makes you most jealous or worried that a guy does in a relationship? i only want to know so i make sure NOT to do these things with my gf.
2007-03-14 14:57:15 · 22 answers · asked by rottenboy57 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont really get jealous that easily but i get annoyed if the guy doesnt keep in contact. a text message in the morning or a call at night would do it
2007-03-14 15:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If a girl feels secure that your into her enough that she doesn't have to fear you bailing out on her, then she won't get jealous all the time. You can't just tell her that your not going to leave her, either, because that's just words.
It has to be something you do that makes her feel better and safe, and I think its different for every girl. Unfortunately, I think what makes us feel safe changes over our lives (no wonder you men are so confused). Right now what makes me feel secure is when my "hubby to be" anwers my questions, but thats because I've had a long line of guys who wouldn't. They would avoid answering me over even stupid little things. But when I was younger, it was more that they always came back and wanted to be with me.
So, I would suggest trying different things and watch how she reacts. If she seems more calm after you've set up some "just the two of you time" (like a movie together), then make sure you do that regularly. If she seems to stay calmer if you've spent time cuddling with her on the couch, then make sure you do that regularly. If she stays calmer when you call her if you go somewhere, then call her when you can. It may even be that you don't look at her enough, because maybe eye contact means your interested and makes her feel secure. (if you don't make eye contact, she may think that means you don't want to be with her).
I think every girl has one of these little "things" that tells us sub-conciously that a guy is into us, and we need it to feel secure. The problem is, we don't always realize it or now what that "thing" we need is. So, you'll have to try to experiment... (she won't be able to tell you, you'll have to see how she reacts)
2007-03-14 22:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lady M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont just concentrate one what u shouldnt do such as the obvious things like not talking to other girls, or talking about other girls, or looking at girls, and all those things which will make any girl jealous. but u should really make ur gf feel special and tell her how much u care for her and that she means a lot to u and all of that stuff. if she really feels like u really do like her and are happy to be with her then she wont be so insecure. good luck!
2007-03-14 23:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by mayami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you flirt a lot? If so that could be the reason your girl is jealous. Also when guys show girls other than their girlfriends a lot of attention we tend to get jealous. Just be very conscious of what you are doing when your around your girlfriend and other girls.
2007-03-14 22:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's different with every girl. But, I would have to say him talking a whole bunch with another girl in particular, or a few girls. Like flirting, or teasing. It sounds like your not young, so I would be careful becouse your girlfriend being worried and jealouse can turn to madness. Well, that can happen to anyone whatever age so..........just watch your gf's actions, and think. Think. What could you be doing wrong? Well, not necessarily wrong, just something that bothers her. (i guess you could call that wrong) If it continues, just sit down with her and ask her if something's bothering her, and what it is. But don't let her control who you talk to, what you do and anything else. Good luck!!!! Happy dateing!!
2007-03-14 22:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by XD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to think when you treat your girlfriend or girl friend, what is the difference? if there is not much difference, there is a problem. She probably feel insecured, and not feel you see her as the most important girl.
When A guy joke around with many girls, and not much distingush a distance between man and women, it is likely to make people wonder if the man and women like each other, or if the man like the women.
Therefore, try to think if you have similar behaviors.
2007-03-15 03:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by Caring Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound weird, but I can tell by my bf's personna and body language if he's (physically) attracted to someone. No, he'd never act on it, and this is where the trust, or insecure issues come in. I can't be jealous if a beautiful woman walks by and he notices her. He shouldn't give her more than a passing glance.
2007-03-14 22:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by .......... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important Anti-Jealousy Tactic: Make it obvious that she is your Number One when in the presence of another woman. I am the jealous sort, and even I remain totally calm and happy when my guy does this good thing. And he does. And I love him for that!
2007-03-15 02:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by jejavi183 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
other GIRLS, they dont care who that girl is, besides relatives, they'll just get auotmatically jealous. When you show attention more to another girl rather than your gf, she'll get pissed. Also, when you spend time without her at a place where you are having fun. Theres more, but i cant think of anymore now
2007-03-14 22:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by =) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually girls dont get jealous unless you do somthing that makes them feel like your love is equal to everyone. They want to be your main "love". SOO next time you hug a girl 10 seconds too long, laugh/eye contact with another girl, talk about another girl, say another girl is really pretty... your in major GF/BF FIGHT. lmao =) hope i helped
2007-03-16 20:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by your a joke... spell it? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋