why is it that the ones you care the most about can make you the angriest?

Question

My friend is one of the only people in the world who can really, really make me angry, everyone else iget over it in a few minutes, but when he pisses me off, i am stuck on it for a long, long time andit takes alot to get over it.

Answer 1

Maybe because you expect more from him. And when he doesnt come thru for you, you feel more let down than when it is someone else not as important.
Why dont you try expecting less and see him more as a human being with imperfections and flaws.
You are friends with him for a reason so focus on those reasons and not the ones that make you mad.