We've been married for about a year. In the last 8 months I have been very unhappy, or should I say finally fessing up to why I am unhappy. I just don't feel attracted to him, I feel uneasy about saying I love you, and all I ever want to do is hang out with all my friends. I feel like I am missing out when I cant go out with my group of friends, but once month. I get very jealous when I hear of everyone going out. I find myself attracted to other guys, one in particular, who makes me feel alive again. Lately my husband and I have been fighting a lot and interested in different things. I feel like I have changed as a person and we are moving in differet directions. I have been to thereapy for 5 sessions, and I still feel deep down inside that I cant do this anymore. I know how much he needs me though. Am I being selfish? Should I trust that he will be OK? I dont know that I was ever in this from the begining. In the back of mind since the day we started dating I feel like I settled.
2007-03-14
15:20:55
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