I live with my boyfriend. We've been living together for a year. and he got a job offer in L.A which is 7 hours away from where we live now! He didnt talk to me about this new job, he didnt invite me to move with him, he basically said that hes moving and going to live there for 4 days and come home to me Thursday thru sunday!! I feel like he's being very selfish, only thinking about himself , not including me in our " future".. and im mad.. If i even thought about getting another job, i would talk to him before going for an interview.. I need your thoughts?
2007-03-14 15:23:06 · 3 answers · asked by shellz23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well maybey he wants to get the job first and tell you after because he might think that you will be very happy about it. If you feel uncomfortable about it than talk it out with him before its too late, and you guys might get into a fight. I know your mad right now but being mad won't solve any problems, all you can do now is talk it out and if he disagree with you than try to figure out the best way to solve this. Tell him how you feel.
2007-03-14 15:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by teheheitsanna :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very sad. Sounds like a very uncomfortable situation to be in. He obviously doesn't want you to go with him. I think he's getting out in a very messed up way. Go on and be merry GIRL!! try www.plentyoffish.com search for puttruckguy
2007-03-14 22:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by Mystery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a little weird he didn't talk to you about it first. Have you asked him why that is?
2007-03-14 22:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋