Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

I met a man at the pool about 2 weeks ago. We exchanged small chit chat and thought nothing of it until the next day when he was at the pool again. This time, he said some things that just made me feel uncomfortable but not scared or threatened. I left it at that....about a few days later, he was there again. This time I expressed "politely" I didn't want to speak to him and to leave me alone. He seem to be okay and didn't bother me further. A few days later, he magically appeared to be at the beach. This time, he took it too far.....he started to play with my children in the water....I immediately grabbed my children and told them not to talk to him. He came over to where we were sitting and began to apologize and speaking. I told him again to leave my kids alone and me. Within the last week, he was been everywhere I turn. I felt he had been walking by my home. I spotted him twice just this week.

2007-03-14 15:48:28 · 16 answers · asked by c c 1 in Singles & Dating

through a dangerous sickness, all the while caring for my sick mother-in-law, waiting for social security benefits, i finally get my money and my husband takes it from me, now his mom is dead and my money is gone and he doesn't hardly speak to me!!!

2007-03-14 15:48:13 · 11 answers · asked by orange sky 6 in Singles & Dating

we are in the process of divorce. we are just seperated for now. I am not a us citizen just a permanent residence. when I was overseas for few months to take care of family problem, later I found that she is seeing somebody.

2007-03-14 15:48:10 · 8 answers · asked by nehatradingconcern 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, here it is, I attract guys based on my looks, maybe the blond hair? Anyways, I always seem to end up with the guys that are no good for me. I want someone caring, considerate, and affectionate, but it seems like that never happens. What kind of vibes should I been sending out to find that special guy? Someone I know will be there for me when ever I need them, and someone who loves me for everything, not just looks. How do I know that he likes me for me and not just the body and hair?

2007-03-14 15:47:58 · 15 answers · asked by waterskiblond 1 in Singles & Dating

She is a sucker for romantics and I love to do special things for her, but for some reason i'm out of ideas right now... Its her 18th birthday and i want it to be the most special birthday of her life. So i want to do something amazing for her. Oh, and it's like 40 degrees outside, so a little chilly.

2007-03-14 15:47:43 · 13 answers · asked by Chris W 1 in Singles & Dating

a girl has painted herself with a lot of fake tan and looks a bit orange. Is it off-putting cos it looks so fake, or is it still sexy cos she's 'tanned'?

2007-03-14 15:47:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex broke up with me 3 weeks ago (was a long distance relationship of 1.5 yrs). We last met up this Jan. Things went well. but i guess this relationship was making him suffocating at the end coz he has never been with a girl for so long.

he once said that he wont be able to find a girl who loves him so much like i do, and that he's gonna regret if he leaves me. (anyway, he left me coz he has lost love feelings)

after the break up, he wanna treat me like a friend and care about me (though i guess he's also having a hard time deep inside his heart).

Just wondering what's the better way to make him miss me?

should i keep in touch with him, be his friend so that he'd know that i'm always here standing by him?

or should i stop keeping in touch with him? will he miss me if i 'disappear' from his life like this?

i dont think i'd have a chance to get him back... i just wanna be his special one... i dont know what's better.

how to make him miss me and be his special one? THanks!!!

2007-03-14 15:46:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey there is this one guy i rilly like and i am new to the skool and this guy is really cool i mean he is friends with lots of my friends........but he never talks to me!!!! it is like he is avoiding me or something. he talks to everyone else and he doesnt seem shy. i just wish he talked to me i mean he talks to my friends and when i come over it is like he is avoiding me. i know it isnt because i am the new kid cuz one of my friends is new too and he talks to her! plz help! what do you think???

2007-03-14 15:46:45 · 6 answers · asked by Julianne G 1 in Singles & Dating

Am I addicted to sex?

2007-03-14 15:46:34 · 15 answers · asked by _DestroyingAngel_ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 15:46:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom kept my sis and i away from him since I was like 5. Im 19 now and I finally spoke to him again and my sis and I went to visit him in florida. I remember him beating my mom, cheating on her, he degraded her so badly and abused her. When I saw him again he seemed so normal, so loving and like a totally new person. Then a few months went by and he stopped calling me and my sister. Come to find out, he threatened my step mom, and is doing all these horrible things. like he used to do to my mom. I just want a dad who is a good person. I know he loves me but not enuf to stop hurting the people I care about. Are some people just not meant to have a dad? God its like I wanna adopt one, at least that way I know what its like to have one, but I cant do that. Its not real, I only have one and only father and I cant trade him in.

2007-03-14 15:46:03 · 13 answers · asked by jkeys00 3 in Family

Friendship Help Needed

2007-03-14 15:45:27 · 30 answers · asked by BLAH KEE CEE 1 in Friends

When Guys Tell Me They Want To Go Grab A Coffee Or Whatever And When It Comes Time Too, They Never Call Or Anything?? Then, They Say "Oh, I Was Busy" Then We Try To Arrange Plans Again, And Again, They Fall Through....

2007-03-14 15:45:22 · 13 answers · asked by ~*~Bu113f1y K1ss3s~*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

Her brother is 15 and Im barley 13.

2007-03-14 15:45:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Will you keep 9th grader Ethan Baker (aka "EBAY") in your thoughts and prayers. He is a boy that goes to my school and he was hurt in an oil tank explosion accident Monday night. He has second and third degree burns and over 45 percent of his body is burned. He is expected to live but everyone at school is having a hard time. Please keep him in your prayers so that he might have a full recovery! He is not a close friend of mine but his recovery is important to me. NO ONE should ever have to go through that!

Thank you so much!

2007-03-14 15:44:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just got asked out by the man of my DREAMS but I have just gone through a really rough time in my life involving a nasty and complicated relationship and the death of a friend. I really want to say yes but I don't think it would be a good idea at the moment considering the above circumstances. What should I tell him?

2007-03-14 15:44:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really want to find true love.. (i am a hopeless romantic) and i keep saying no to guys that ask me out cuz i am waiting for the 'right one'. my friends say that im stupid and that i should stop waiting and just date other guys, but i really want my love to be a special thing!!! when i see him i will kno that he is the right guy, and i havent seen him yet. should i keep waiting for the perfect guy for me or date other guys until i find him??

2007-03-14 15:44:00 · 2 answers · asked by pointegurlie7706 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 15:43:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

please add me to your friends list on yahoo messenger if your like me joekluntz@yahoo.com

2007-03-14 15:43:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

guys, do u like girls for their personality or their looks? plz answer!

2007-03-14 15:43:31 · 3 answers · asked by Omgitsme 2 in Singles & Dating

The problem is that my father sexually abused me while I was growing up. Although the issue has finally been addressed, ie counseling, etc, obviously it is not something that is ever forgotten. While it would be nice to have an ideal relationship with my dad, this is not the case, but I know my mom would love to have him and/ or her walk me down the aisle. My husband recently immigrated here, so we were required by the law to marry within 90 days of his arrival. Thus, the fact that we are already married, added to my feminist-leaning ideals as well as the actions of my dad lead me to think that it would be more appropriate to walk down the aisle alone or with my husband. What do you all think? I appreciate your input.

2007-03-14 15:43:18 · 17 answers · asked by yolanda 1 in Weddings

This is kind of crazy. I found out that when my boyfriend's father goes on vacation with his friends to Brazil and the Bahamas, he is cheating on his wife. No one knows; not my boyfriend, his mother, nor anyone else in his family. I know I should keep my mouth shut but it's so hard because I always see him in her face smiling at her, kissing her, etc, and they look so happy. What should I do??

2007-03-14 15:42:59 · 5 answers · asked by Sexy C 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey everyone its Damon Reis again.

I want to know what girls really like as gifts or what you would want out of no where for no reason at all just an out of no-where gift.
(from your boyfriend)

2007-03-14 15:42:46 · 8 answers · asked by guitarist101damon 3 in Singles & Dating

Lets say your girl's boobs are in one of them prison lineups....only their boobs flashing...(faces, torso hidden)...Can you identify your ladies...breasts???? .....What makes her's so unique ????

2007-03-14 15:42:35 · 1 answers · asked by gemini6187 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I of 2 1/2 weeks use to be together in the 8th grade. We're now 18 and 19 and we met back up at church and started dating again. Everything was going great until I saw in his phone that he was text messing a girl and it had the contents "u and only u"...he eventually confessed and apologized and I forgave him and we made up...three days later I jokingly asked him for the password for his voicemail..I wasn't really expecting him to give it to me but he lied and said 1148 I put the phone on speaker and he said "baby i don't know why it's saying that and my passcode in 1148"...so i of course knew he was lying and I got pissed and said fine lets call nextel I didn't know his number by heart he told me the last four digits of his cell phone number was 5396 which was a lie again...he's obviously a f-ing lier but a part of me still wants to be with him..what should i do??...thank you for all responses..tOOdles :)

2007-03-14 15:42:13 · 2 answers · asked by broken heart 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 15:42:11 · 6 answers · asked by seth a 1 in Singles & Dating

i keep having dreams about my ex- fiancee. the dream:
i always go to his home town (his in qld im in melb)
and we see each other and instantly i feel secure, safe, loved, disarable well alot but in the dreams we always have to sneak around because im married. some small details change but its always the same senario we meet, have the most intense passionate affair and run away together.

i dont understand this we have known each other for nearly 10 years, he was my first love we have this wierd bond. we were together in high school then i moved really far away was in a new realationship and when i left this realationship i had a 1yr old and was 2months pregnant,i went back to our home town and seen him and he moved to melb and was there for me through my very rough pregnancy and custody battle he was there for alot, but after a we got engaged he become abusive and cheated (this is why we broke up)
im now married with another child. and i have recently been told my husband has been unfaithful plus i have a few health issues going on. BUT WHY WOULD I NOW DREAM ABOUT MY EX IT DOESNT MAKE SENSE????

2007-03-14 15:42:04 · 13 answers · asked by mrs nevz 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Y i really like this guy but he won't go out with me cuz he likes this other gurl...but she told him that she dosen't like him like that and plus she likes someone else.....PLZ HELP GUYS!!

2007-03-14 15:42:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 15:41:11 · 19 answers · asked by coco 1 in Singles & Dating

He is older than me by about 10 years and I feel like a wimp next to him, he says its not a big deal, but I get serioulsy tired out by him!
What can I do to make him come faster?

2007-03-14 15:40:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce