my ex broke up with me 3 weeks ago (was a long distance relationship of 1.5 yrs). We last met up this Jan. Things went well. but i guess this relationship was making him suffocating at the end coz he has never been with a girl for so long.
he once said that he wont be able to find a girl who loves him so much like i do, and that he's gonna regret if he leaves me. (anyway, he left me coz he has lost love feelings)
after the break up, he wanna treat me like a friend and care about me (though i guess he's also having a hard time deep inside his heart).
Just wondering what's the better way to make him miss me?
should i keep in touch with him, be his friend so that he'd know that i'm always here standing by him?
or should i stop keeping in touch with him? will he miss me if i 'disappear' from his life like this?
i dont think i'd have a chance to get him back... i just wanna be his special one... i dont know what's better.
how to make him miss me and be his special one? THanks!!!
2007-03-14 15:46:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best way to get a guy's attention is to act like it doesn't matter either way if he calls or not. Make yourself unavailable. Be nice when you talk to him but just act carefree as though you haven't a care in the world. He'll start to think about what your up to. The more desperate you appear the more he will play you. Good Luck!
2007-03-14 15:59:37 · answer #1 · answered by byotch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 20:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. Keep the conversation flowing. Let him know that you are there, but do not crowd him. Trying to make him miss you more is not going to achieve anything but more hurt, confusion and will probably end up driving you away from each other. An ex is an ex for a reason.
2007-03-14 15:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by smile_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to make an e-anything miss you - that's why they call it ex.
2007-03-14 15:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by Nora Explora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shared time together, a year and a half, is a long time, I think he misses you, but right now he just wants to be your friend, he cares for you, he wants to stay friends, and that´s nice of him, that means he cares for you. But I think that you should stop talking to him for some time ´till talking to him won´t hurt you anymore, it´s not like you hate him or something like that but you just need time to heal.
2007-03-14 16:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by smiley_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you??? he obviously just wants to be friends..and its wrong of you to try make him miss you. this might be hard enough for him already...he cant help it if he doesn't love you anymore. you should be happy that he still wants to be your friend. cause I'm sure if he found out that your trying to manipulate him, he wouldn't want anything to do with you.
2007-03-14 15:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by SubbYMonKeY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-03 14:23:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring him out as a friend to the places where you and him always hang out when u guys were together.Those sweet memories.=)
2007-03-14 15:55:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should go somewhere holidays 4 2-3 weeks if he really loves u he w'd always phone/sms u everyday.take care.
2007-03-14 15:54:50 · answer #9 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he misses you already, but i doubt he will love you for more than only a friend
sorry
2007-03-14 15:48:58 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋