Friendship Help Needed
2007-03-14 15:45:27 · 30 answers · asked by BLAH KEE CEE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just wait a week lol, really girls are so silly and catty its ridiculous when you're young. Make your 'apologies' and say what they want to hear and next week it'll be someone else. I used to get so mad at the silly girls who would act like that over such little things....
2007-03-14 15:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by radiancia 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That is a part of growing up hun....it sucks, but it will happen all through your life. Whatever you do, don't talk trash back behind their back, it shows no class, and doesn't make you any better than they are. Also it doesn't fix anything. You can be a bigger person, and I'll guarantee that someone will notice and comment to someone else about it, and you will gain respect and some better new friends....you won't regret it in the long run...just ignore them...it's hard, but you will be surprised how good it will feel later.
Good luck.
2007-03-14 15:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by Tukie2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful that finally this so called "best friend" that he/she is not has shown his/her true colors. It hurts but you learn your lesson. Next time, take your time disclosing yourself. A best friend will not pressure you into sharing your real self, have this so call "friend" prove himself and his loyalty to you before you trust him/her. Put him/her to the test without this person knowing to find out what type of individual is.
Anyway, some things should not be share with anyone other than with your mom. Take care!
2007-03-14 15:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old U are, but it sounds like these so called "friends" of yours are not. Real friends are counted on one hand. If they're treating you like this they are obviously not. My friends don't do me like that. One thing I would suggest is that you don't confide in them anymore. You can be civil, but don't feel that you have to go off on them. Be glad that you found these things about them before they could have hurt more than your feelings. The best and most mature way to deal with them is to put them on the platonic friend list-you know, people that you can associate with (if you choose to), but don't share intimate details with. You shouldn't volunteer the core of your self to people you barely know. When looking for new friends give yourself time to get to know them, and see if they are trustworthy before you spill your guts to them. Just take your time.
2007-03-14 16:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by Teoshe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't like you anymore then fine, their lost. But if they are talking bad about you behind your back, then ignore it, but when it reaches a climatic point, get help from an outside source.
2007-03-14 15:48:11 · answer #5 · answered by BMW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm sorry that happened to you. Try to keep your head up and remember a new friend is just around the corner. They will tire of talking about you soon enough.
2007-03-14 15:48:51 · answer #6 · answered by Chrissy #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as they are talking about you behind you're back, you're still in the lime light. Act like it doesn't bother you and it will take the wind out of there sails. And remember-always
pick you're friends, don't let them pick you.
2007-03-14 15:58:19 · answer #7 · answered by Jackolantern 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now a days everyone talks about everyone else and they're all totally fake. keep one or two reallyyyy close friends by you and make sure you can trust them with anything. everyone else dont worry about. if they talk about you then they are not your friend and it's their loss for missing out on your friendship. try hanging out with different people or even people you normally wouldn't talk to. people could surprise you.
ps. - they are prob just talking about you cuz they're jealous (=
2007-03-14 15:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by liz1214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray to God and ask for guidance!!!!! This is a serious issue that stays with you for the rest of your life... people will be people... just be different than those who might not have direction!!! God will help you and you should forgive and forget there are plenty of people you can be friends with... you just haven't found your true friends... but you will!!! Keep your chin up and keep praying!!!
2007-03-14 15:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by Casey M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the two. Confront her and tell her you do not delight in the way she has betrayed your have confidence. Then not purely provide up telling her issues, yet decrease her off as your buddy, on condition that she needless to say isn't one.
2016-12-18 13:58:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋