This is kind of crazy. I found out that when my boyfriend's father goes on vacation with his friends to Brazil and the Bahamas, he is cheating on his wife. No one knows; not my boyfriend, his mother, nor anyone else in his family. I know I should keep my mouth shut but it's so hard because I always see him in her face smiling at her, kissing her, etc, and they look so happy. What should I do??
2007-03-14 15:42:59 · 5 answers · asked by Sexy C 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I guess I should tell you guys that this has been going on for YEARS not just recently and not just 1 or 2 times. Sh** more than 10. He tells her that he's going "scuba diving"
2007-03-14 15:51:48 · update #1
Send an anonymous letter with all the information and how you got it to the wife. Do Not tell their kids. She will do the checking and find out for her self. This lady needs some one to open her eyes before she walks in on them. It will hurt her much less. I am 51 and my hubby was up to the same thing. Some one was nice enough to tell me by a letter. I thank that person daily. It kept me from living a lie. I have a wonderful man now he takes me to the places we love. We are best friends and very happy.
2007-03-14 15:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by real 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that the right thing for you to do is to just sit back and let this one ride. Its not your place to say anything. But if you decide to,then just be prepared for whatever may happen because then the whole family may look at you as a "homewrecker." Just sit back and let nature take its course. I know that you've heard of bad karma!!! Sooner or later it'll come back on him.
2007-03-14 23:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This lowlife isn't just cheating on his wife, but also on his entire family. I agree with the person who said to send an anonymous letter. People should be called out for their behavior when it is hurtful or abusive to others.
2007-03-14 23:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see the father, ask him if he wants to appear on Jerry Springer and tell the world a secret! The father is a lowlife scumbag!
2007-03-14 22:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by Tom B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Although I'd be tempted to say something if I were in your shoes, it's not your business. Keep quiet; she will figure it out.
2007-03-14 22:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋