Ok theres this guy. He likes me but I dont really lie him. I mean hes okay but not the kind 4 me. I'm worried about his feellings, because there was a guy that I really liked and he didnt like me back. I hate to reject people. So should I go out with him and see if I grow to like him, or just leave him alone???
2007-03-14 15:24:21 · 6 answers · asked by Amber 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You better check on your feelings first, now if you don't really like him then tell him right away.
If you just wanted to give him the chance to experience how to be with him or not to feel rejected, well hey! sooner or later when you learn that you cannot really love him back it would be hell with him you'd be hurting him badly. Don't give him chance when he has nothing to look forward to.
With the other guy, if he really doesn't like you so be it! they a lot there
2007-03-14 15:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by chiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never go out with a guy because you don't want to hurt his feelings. It may seem hard to tell him the truth, but you will hurt him more if you pretend to like him. At least if you tell him you aren't interested, he'll get over it and find someone else. Every one gets rejected. It's a part of life.
2007-03-14 22:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, it will crush him. But that is apart of growing up. Let him down in a nice way, but at the same time, make it clear that you dont feel the same way for him as he does for you. This way you both can move on and find people who fit both of you.
2007-03-14 22:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by René 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truely if u don't like him dont go out with him. i went out with someone 4 that reason once and it was the worst mistake of my life
2007-03-14 22:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by flash_am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does the right things and is a good person..then give a chance if you think u might like him after a whike of knowing...him!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-15 15:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsayyy ツ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. If you don't want to go out with him, then just say no.
2007-03-14 22:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by leensterr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋