If you had not mentioned the "occasional" verbal abuse I would be answering this differently....but you did ...so im not.
No matter what ....the abuse will progress and get more often and severe. That is a fact not my opinion.He will know why you married him and disrespect and resent you. In the shortest possible words I can say .....what you must do to save yourself from a fate that could be worse than death..is RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!.......
You already know that ...Your gut is telling you just that!!...you wanted affirmation ..but you dont need it ...trust your gut ALWAYS... it never lies!!.......your going to do the right thing i know it ..and you deserve it too!!!...im so sure of it that im happy for your liberation already!!!...your not going to sell out cheap!!!...i wish you the happyest life ...and your gonna have it!!!
Peace
2007-03-16 09:17:07
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answered by KorvetteKaren 4
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Loveless couples stay in marriages everyday, I have a girl friend that would love to leave her husband , but she wouldn't be able to live the life she is accustomed to...SL500's, mink, diamonds, summer home in the mountains, nip and tucks when needed. Married 35 years of pure hell, anyway thats what she tells me.
I would suggest counseling and if that didn't work, go back to school while your still married to get a job making a lot of money.
Oh, by the way she asked me the same question you asked.
I told her to get her self secure before doing anything...money in the bank, a good job,
2007-03-14 15:46:40
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answered by Grogan 5
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I couldn't tolerate loveless marriage just for security purposes. It is hard enough to live with someone when there is love, so why would I want that with someone just because they could provide for me. I would rather wait for true happiness.
2007-03-14 15:36:24
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answered by Krinta 7
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The longer you stay with someone who abuses you in any way, the more self-worth you lose. While striking out on your own, without much money, is frightening, and intimidating, you will quickly get used to it. One morning you will wake up and feel liberated!
It is better to be healthy and have respect for yourself than to allow someone to take away your value. I would leave. And I did.
2007-03-14 15:41:15
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answered by kari w 3
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possibly as a assertion of what somebody else stated that made their argument much less valid. Socrates isn't approximately to stand in the back of something he or all of us else says. retaining some thing you stated in the previous isn't actual consistent, yet inconsistent with what you think of surprising now. Socrates knew basically that he knew no longer something. it rather is a astounding assertion that keeps taking on new meanings for me. A disbelief is carefully distinctive from a concept.
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answered by ? 4
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I personally would never stay in a relationship that I was unhappy with. Life is to short to ever regret your decisions in life. So I would rather live any other way in hopes of love and happiness then stay with someone that I know I could never love or would never love me.
2007-03-14 15:37:25
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answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4
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not all that not at all. you may hit it off a lot better. but if you want that loveless life then do it.but a good true secure life is worth life its self
2007-03-14 15:33:43
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answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6
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Why marry for money alone. I like money like everyone else but I love my husband and I didnt marry him for the money we havent always had it but he has worked hard for it and if it were gone tomorrow i would stilll love him as long as he wasnt the one who blew on hookers,gambling, drugs, or alcohol because then I would divorce him.
2007-03-14 15:32:57
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answered by hotmoma1 1
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