I met someone on-line approx. 5 yrs. ago. I live in California...he lives in Indiana. It is not a romantic relationship...but instead...he is much older than me and is a serious diabetic. He also was in a fatal car accident approx. 3 mos. ago in which he was revived 7 times. I believe we have become close friends online. We have exchanged photos...spoke on phone...and now he wants to meet me LIVE. So he bought me a roundtrip airline ticket to Indiana. What do you guys think of this? Is it a stupid move? Afterall, he could me an ax murderer?
2007-03-14 15:01:13 · 9 answers · asked by Strong_Will 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Its scary today. But he invested 5 yrs on you. Most murderes or sickos would have either moved on, killed someone and maybe gotten caught, gotten locked up and so on in 5 yrs. If anything happens to you its his name on the ticket that got you there. Its his pic's on your computer if you go missing. Too many links to you from him. Maybe do some investigating on your part thru the internet, like check out his criminal history...etc.
2007-03-14 15:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mammamia3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's right- DON'T GO!! Even tho u've been talking to this guy for 5 yrs., u still don't know anything about him, only what HE says. How do u know he was in an accident? How do u know he's diabetic? How do u know he's much older? U don't, that's the prob. All u know is just what he tells u, but u don't know for sure. he COULD BE an ax murderer, a rapist, a pedifile, or any # of things. U don't say how old u r, but u should stay home, where u belong. Why doesn't he come to Cal., where u can be protected, just in case? Don't be a stastistic, stay home, stay alive, stay safe, be smart!! Sorry, it just doesn't click. Best to u.
2007-03-14 15:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by louise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you've said, you seem to be comfortable with him. When you see him in person, it could be different, but as long as you are friends that's all that matters.
Before you go visit him, make sure you know what you're getting in to. Try to see if you have any relatives in Indiana, do a background check on the dude, and check to see if you have any loose ends that you need to tie up here.
Plus if he is so sick, then he could hire a hooker for sex. Than again he could be one of those sensitive psychos, but I doubt it. Remember that he's in a weakened state, and if you need to, you can probably kick his @$$ to kingdom come if necessary.
Just be careful and let at least 3 people know where you're going, and don't leave without t a cell phone.
Don't forget to tell your parents if you are under 19!!
2007-03-14 15:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by ~luminary legacy~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, well, i guess it depends on how old you are.. i have a friend who lives in another country that i have been talking with since i was 16... i am now 25 and he flew to the states 4 years ago and we met up... it was great, but we met in nyc with a lot of people around and stayed public.... that ways there was not much to worry about.... and it was great... and we're still friends and someday i may go to england to see him... ya just gotta be completely safe about it... oh, and my friends is only 2 years older than me
2007-03-14 15:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by shiningstar1313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not its a great idea to meet people in person as well as just the cyber communication so you will have friends from across the country, go have fun, get to know them more in real life, dont reject it cuz u might not be able to talk to him as before on line cuz u didnt accept the offar unless u cant make it under special circumestances.
2007-03-14 15:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you didn't mention your age, I would say that if you are under 21, speak with your parents. If you are over 21, then trust your instincts. The whole situation strikes me as strange, and I'd be somewhat reluctant to go.
2007-03-14 15:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to burst your bubble...but for goodness sakes do not go alone.....take a friend or relative and if he is really a sincere friend, then he will totally understand and would want you to take someone with you.......DO NOT GO ALONE!!!!! haven't you heard all of the horror stories related to online meetings!!!!!
2007-03-14 15:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you know how well you know him. But remember that people aren't always who they say they are.
Is it stupid? Just my opinion, but I wouldn't do it.
2007-03-14 15:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to agree with louise b
2007-03-14 15:45:03 · answer #9 · answered by groucheta66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋