Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

about 3 monthes, my b-friend, do not call me... if i call him he is very happy, saying me good words, (as, i love u) but also that he is busy, about the job very much. what to do??? dose he love me??? or he have another girl??? what can i do??? Why he cant say, that he dont love me, i cant wait more ... I love him! A very strange situation! i need a help :(

2007-03-14 02:02:48 · 8 answers · asked by Guly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I could possibly write a book on how much there is tell , But I well Try to make it short
Ive been with my GF five years , From the very first year we were together we fought sometimes , But after are first child .We fought more because the lack of communications
We had with each other , She would not tell me why she wouldn’t acknowlege me for a year, Into the second year of are relationship. So I met another girl one night , my current GF caught me with her but prior to this she called the cops on me for locking her out of the house because she was hitting me from a fight we had , anyhow today she is looking for a place wants me to leave a place and be with her but I’m still seeing the other girl .. I have two kids with my GF we been together five years but during them years I have been trying to get away at times, away from her.. She crys and says she LOVES ME . I cant tell her I’m still seeing the other girl because she honestly might try to stab me .there is way more to this .

2007-03-14 02:02:03 · 7 answers · asked by llllhardc0rellll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Looking for ways to win a women heart. What are the best method, to make her remember or talk about us in their dreams. Always in her mind...

2007-03-14 02:02:00 · 5 answers · asked by may l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How much does a genealogist make ? Anyone gotta a clue.?Tami (again)

2007-03-14 02:01:44 · 2 answers · asked by Tami 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

sweet as in he really really makes me feel that he truly loves me..
sweet as he could tell me the words that i wanted to hear..
sweet as i could really feel that i'm a girl..
and as if i'm the only one in the world that he would love and nobody else will do..

2007-03-14 02:01:21 · 6 answers · asked by GqEuReAeLnDy 1 in Singles & Dating

Even if hes given some signals, still afraid, why?

2007-03-14 02:01:03 · 6 answers · asked by alt 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel like such an idiot . I am 43 and in a great in a relationship with a woman who loves me and I love her but my insecurities are chipping away at the relationship and starting to ruin it . We have been together for about a year and a half we both have children from a previous marriage. I think that my girlfriend is beautiful and has a very outgoing personality and loves talking to everyone . My problem is that sometimes men see this as a come on and that bothers me , I told her how knowing that bothers me but I don't want het to not be herself and withdrawl from people , We joined a gym and I felt insecure when they gave her a free work out with a personal trainer that was male . I know that my girl had an affair when she was married which was a long and horrible marriage 4 her . I am not sure if it is knowing that this took place in the past or maybe it is just my insecurities which I have always have . How can I overcome this insecurity I want to be a strong confident person ,

2007-03-14 02:01:01 · 6 answers · asked by el diablo 1 in Singles & Dating

I've got a crush on a girl who already has a boyfriend. But she asked me for drinks a few weeks ago and was extremely flirtatious throughout. At the same time, she was sending me mixed signals throughout. The problem is I do have a crush on this girl and can't seem to get her out of my mind. I'm doing other things and going on other dates and stuff, but a part of me can't help but wonder what other people do in situations like this. I mean, girls leave their BFs for other guys, it's been known to happen. So, my question is: has anyone here had a crush on a girl who had a BF and still got her? And been happy with her later? Girls -- did you ever start liking another guy when you had a BF and ended up with the other guy? If so, what did the guy do to win you over?

I definitely don't want a girl who can be a cheater, regardless of how big a crush I have on her ... so just trying to get some thoughts from everyone here. Thanks for your help! BTW, I'm 30 yrs old, not in high school...

2007-03-14 01:58:41 · 5 answers · asked by riddler 1 in Singles & Dating

He had an affair with a co-worker of ours and she claims to have become pregnant and he is going for a paternity test to find out if it is his. This is not the first time she has done this to a family her other two children are from marrried men also. What can I expect if he is the father? What can I do to keep from feeling resentment for an innocent child when we have two little children of our own?

2007-03-14 01:58:26 · 10 answers · asked by Denise 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee and I are Nigerians. We would like to avoid the hassles of Lagos and get married in Ghana. Could you please tell us where to find the requirements for getting married in Ghana [residence duration, if any; legal requirements; etc.] If possible, could you suggest alternatives to Accra, or good reception venues? Any other information would be very well appreciated!

2007-03-14 01:57:42 · 1 answers · asked by plancks.constant 3 in Weddings

I have been married going on 4 years, and i can't take it anymore? I am soooo fed up with his crap and i just want out. And i don't want to be one of those people that "just stay for the kids" cause that's just crap. I just need to know, how do you go about getiing a divorce. What's the first step? Serious answers only please!!

2007-03-14 01:57:18 · 16 answers · asked by star-e 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He says that he has never cheated on his girlfriend and when he is with someone he is with them. However, he keeps wanting to talk to me and he says he wants to make love to me again. He says that he has always loved me and missed me. I have missed him too. I can't figure out if he loves me of or if he is playing me. If we had gotten together would he be doing this with someone else or am I just that special to him?
He told me he loves his girlfriend but I am from his past and he never stopped missing me.

2007-03-14 01:56:08 · 6 answers · asked by formy p 1 in Singles & Dating

well, i have a guy who has been crazy about me 4 the past 4 years. When he proposed 2 me (7 months ago), i said no. bcoz of family probs. i like him a lot, but my reputation is dat of a flirt so he keeps hearing crap about me, even tho he is in a different city (4 studies).
he says he can leev ne gal in da world 4 me.im pretty sre he really loves me.

but now he has gotten frustrated of waitin 4 me so he gonna say yes 2 one of me frenz (she has had a crush on him 4 da last 4 mths).

i need a song wich says im not sad 2 see him go, dont him back but want 2 let him know that it might have been.......

2007-03-14 01:55:33 · 5 answers · asked by Gem-in-i 2 in Singles & Dating

You kow what they are from the start.

I dated a bad girl once, I knew she was a bad girl. Unfortunatly I fell in love with her, like a girl I believed I was diffrent and our thing togeather changed her, and it turned into my own personal hell.

But when it was over I didn't ask why all women were untrustworthy and cold hearted. I knew I let myself get involved with a bad girl and it came to it's logical end.

2007-03-14 01:55:04 · 3 answers · asked by tenbadthings 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

hello

i cannot afford solicitors fees but was wondering if you could point me in the right direction.

i am a tenant of thames valley housing (we are a family of 6) the housing association had been trying to evict our anti social and violent neighbours for some time , we were asked to write a nuisance diary also to film their daily activities . when the eviction hearing finally got to court thames valley asked if they could use our evidence as a family we were given no more than 48 hrs to decide after talking we decided to let thames valley use the evidence. this is when our problems started. we were moved out of our lovely home on feb 1 07 into a safe house which is not very nice i am disabled my 2 daughters have now missed 6 weeks from school!! (as it is not safe to go back to the area) my 2 sons are unable to get employment as we do not know when we will be moving to a permenant property. we are all very depressed.

anyway to cut a long story short our evidence secured the neighbours eviction thames valley have made us all these promises and all we have had from them so far is a pot plant to say thankyou.

could you please advice what our rights are etc.

thankyou very much

carolyn cass

2007-03-14 01:54:57 · 6 answers · asked by carolyn c 1 in Family

I once met a guy who had a baby-sized one. I could not get excited.

2007-03-14 01:54:08 · 17 answers · asked by LADY 2 in Singles & Dating

I would like to find that special lady, but am not interested in finding a girl who is only after my $$$

One thing that I have been doing is driving an old pickup truck (with over 200,000 miles), instead of my Viper.....that seems to actually work....do you have any other ideas?

2007-03-14 01:52:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it not surprising that almost everbody admits this fact still so much money and time is spent for it? why are there so many beauticians in damand? why do men get attracted to the "beautiful" woman? what do you think?

2007-03-14 01:52:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 01:52:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to teach a frnd a lesson who has just used me and now when she have some thing to do she forgot me completely.
She calls me her best frnd it means I have given her that what a best frnd gives but I call her a selfish frnd bcoz she has just taken from me but I didnt get anything from her.

I want to teach her lesson. Just want to make her realise that she is wrong so plz tell me what to do.

I have started avoiding her calls already whenever she calls me I dont answer it. Later I mail her and make some excuse.
I think by now she got this that I dont care for her like b4 but it seems to have no affect on her.
I want her to realise that she has been to me. She calls me only to feel light abt her probs and I m fed up of all these.
As i am not even texting her what do u think what impression has she got? will this avoidance affect her and put some sense in her mind that this frndshp is coming to an end only she can try to save it. plz plz help

2007-03-14 01:51:58 · 24 answers · asked by lets_smile07 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im pregnant with my 3ed child and have diabities my babys due on april 14 and my brothers wedding is about a month later.i dont get along with his wife to be. as she called me a f ing ***** in my own home most times she visits shes rude and abusive shes horrible i bite my cheek for my brothers sake. i see him about once a year he lives about 300 miles away and never calls and can be very selfish. he wants me and kids to come down overnight but he dosnt understand i carnt afford to because i dont have transport and with a new baby round the corner i carnt see how i could afford the trip. im also worried about my baby to. he wants the kids to be bridesmaid and pageboy so i need to let him know what im doing im realy in a muddle. there also not inviting my other brother who has done nothing to them and dose not deserve to be excluded ive a good mind to say get on with it without me.would i be wrong ?

2007-03-14 01:51:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Why do guys keep hassling me to take off my clothes and to see my cam. When I say no they never speak to me again. I am not even sure why I bought one. It has led to nothing but me getting harrassed by men.

2007-03-14 01:50:32 · 14 answers · asked by some chic 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it acceptable to invite someone to your bridal shower if they are not invited to the wedding?

2007-03-14 01:50:21 · 18 answers · asked by soon2bmrs 2 in Weddings

I now know that my freeloading nephew will continue to take advantage of my family's hospitality. If you missed my previous question, he's 22, jobless, has no desire to get a real job, has "plans" on going to school full time, is eating us out of house and home, sleeps all day and doesn't contribute to any of the household chores. We had no idea that it would be this way when he moved here.

My husband, myself, and our four kids are in desperate need of help. Money is extremely tight and the nephew is making it much worse. How much should I ask my nephew to pay?

2007-03-14 01:49:45 · 5 answers · asked by weebit9898 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my girlfriend and I have been dating for a few years now, and things were going quite well, we have had some hard times, but we have made it through. Lately like the past 6 mo she has been drinking alot, and not that thats a problem but when she gets drunk she gets mean to people around her. It doesnt really bother me when she does that to just me, but now its including my family and friends. She gets upset that people dont like her but when she drinks she tells them some mean things and people dont like that which i agree with. She tells me that i should side with her, but I dont, I cannot have a girl come between me and my family, it wouldnt work out for me. I am kinda close with my family and I wouldnt be the same person without them. Am I wrong for doing this? Should I break up with her, because this has been going on for a while and my family and friends are pretty fed up....

2007-03-14 01:49:18 · 10 answers · asked by summer24 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 01:49:12 · 5 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Singles & Dating

Well everyone.. Im 34, living at home with my mom, no job, but I do have a car ;)

Well I met this girl off of an online dating site.. let's just say we hit it off. My mom approves of her and gives me the OK to date her if I want.

Well after a few messages, I fell in love with her instantly. I never met her though yet, as she lives 12 hours away. She wants to be "engaged" someday... well I can't afford a ring right now but I DID put a huge tattoo of her name across my back. Do you think she will use the tattoo on my back as an engagement, instead of a ring?

2007-03-14 01:49:00 · 18 answers · asked by andrew a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If hes paralyzed ? or does it have to be from the knees down to work?

2007-03-14 01:48:54 · 2 answers · asked by alt 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 01:48:32 · 3 answers · asked by lavainya g 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 01:47:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating