Ladies...what is a good way for me to weed out gold-diggers?

Question

I would like to find that special lady, but am not interested in finding a girl who is only after my $$$

One thing that I have been doing is driving an old pickup truck (with over 200,000 miles), instead of my Viper.....that seems to actually work....do you have any other ideas?

Answer 1

well the truck is a good idea, all so don't sate a woman unless she has a job and is able to support her self, ask her what her long term goals are and how she plans on obtaining them. All so the first few dates don't go some place all Fancy keep it simple and see how she reacts.

Answer 2

Don't buy them extravagent things or take them to extravagent places. Try going for dates in "normal" low key places where you can just focus on each other or having fun, like local festivals or parks or a quiet corner/neighborhood restauraunt or cafe. Just be yourself, and if she seems more interested in you spending money to have a good time than actually wanting to get to know you, that's a red flag. Non-gold-diggers may offer to pay for their half of the date, or ask to foot the bill themselves. This is the 21st century, women do have great jobs and can afford to contribute to their own social lives! Oh, one more thing...wear old, worn non-designer shoes. Women always look at shoes...they can be a dead giveaway!

Answer 3

Gold Diggers are always the ones that come up to you first when you find out are rich.. also they will automatically bring on the seduction, and off the clothes, and if she dosen't seem like a Gold Digger at first, you will always tell a little while into the relationship (if you start one) Best or Luck Hun

Answer 4

I'm not a woman, lady, but allow me to say even if you find someone who is interested in you, why would you even spend money on her in the first place...if she wants to get to know you, then likes you for you after her "tests", she will spend her own money on a cup of coffee, soft drink or anything else just to be with you to get to know you first.
If the first thing you do is go up to a woman upon meeting and ask her out (ask for her permission to take her somewhere and spend money on her for free stuff, food, drink, etc, then why woudn't she in this day and age? ),this only tells women that first, you have some money to spend, 2nd, you will spend money on them and tells them you will give them all the power and tells them you are only buying their affection and attention and its all free stuff to them...it doesn't mean they will really like you, or go out again, or be emotionally involved... even if they do stay around for a little while they are only there for the free things... oh they may think you're good looking or whatever who knows what's really in their minds? As soon as they leave you they may be going to the other guys place to get bought some more free stuff! makes you think, huh? maybe they're driving the car he paid
for last month?
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Answer 5

Don't let any of them know that you have money. I've met so many men that try to impress me with the material things they own or how much they have in the bank. It's a major turn off to me. I feel like there must be something really wrong with them if they can only impress someone with their money. I think you have a great idea driving an old pickup truck. I do have to warn you about the potential relationship risks if you choose to pretend to have little. In my current situation I have very little. I am raising 3 daughters on my own with little money. I have a daughter that has an autoimmune disease so it is difficult for me to keep a job. Before I had children I had a great job and could afford most anything that I wanted. But now I'm as poor as they come. :) I've learned to live with very little. I think I'm the only person in their 30's that has absolutely no debt except for monthly bills. I don't own any credit cards because I know that it would be difficult for me to pay on them. So I only buy what I can afford. I'm telling you this because I met a wonderful man and started seeing him. We clicked and had a very nice romance for several months. Then he decided to reveal to me that he was rather well off. It made no difference to me at first because I knew I would remain who I was and it didn't make me feel any different about him until.... He started taking me to fancy restaurants and buying me jewelry. Don't get me wrong... I loved it but... I loved my children more. I had a hard time eating lobster when my girls were eating oats and wearing expensive jewelry while my girls were wearing discount clothes from the Good Will. If I had stayed with him I'm sure that we could have all had nice things eventually but I couldn't do it. I started to feel like I couldn't be "me" anymore. I started to feel like I had to meet his standards and it made me feel bad about myself. In the end our relationship ended. I'm back to living my minimal lifestyle while he's out going on trips and buying expensive food. So I guess my point is... don't expect to find a kind, thoughtful, sensitive woman who will want you just for you and expect her not to change when you reveal your riches. It's not likely that she will stick around. Money really does change people. Sometimes it's not for the good. I hope I've made sense to you. Have a wonderful day, Good luck and God bless!

Answer 6

Girls always appreciate gifts but don't start out by buying extravagant ones. This can turn even the nicest girls into expectant ones that want expensive gifts. Another way is not bringing them back to your place for a while, not until you get to know them and can tell if they are good natured or not. If you have a nice house, etc. they will know you have a lot of money.

Answer 7

Maybe you should have a questionnaire.... No not really.


Try and find a woman with a good head on her shoulders that is making it on her own. Don't tell her you are loaded. If you find a woman with all of her own stuff, job, car, place to live etc, she probably wont care that you have money because she makes her own.

Answer 8

Ah haaa!! Wot a clever little chappie you are now, aren't you???

Bet you're sitting back having a right old time, now aren't you mate??

Any woman would have to be totally deranged to go with somebody as sneaky as you !! Fancy that, got yourself a huge list of fans yet have you buddy, I mean that is the purpose of this whole charade isn't it. Eeeeeew !!!


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Answer 9

It's not like you HAVE to tell women immediately how much money you have or what you are making. None of their business unless things turn more serious.

Answer 10

you'll know if she was a gold digger if she always wants you to buy her stuff.....all the time.or like if you guys always go out to eat and she never offer to pays.then i think thats a gold digger....