He says that he has never cheated on his girlfriend and when he is with someone he is with them. However, he keeps wanting to talk to me and he says he wants to make love to me again. He says that he has always loved me and missed me. I have missed him too. I can't figure out if he loves me of or if he is playing me. If we had gotten together would he be doing this with someone else or am I just that special to him?
He told me he loves his girlfriend but I am from his past and he never stopped missing me.
2007-03-14 01:56:08 · 6 answers · asked by formy p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He says he tried to find me years ago. However, other people found me. My mother would give messages that he had called but I don't understand why there was not a phone number. He went to my old job looking for me but why did he not ask anyone where I had gone to. He called me 5 yrs later when I was married and asked me out. He said he had just found me. Did he try hard enough to find me before? I carry a tremendous guilt because I was not there. Am I wrong?
2007-03-14 02:21:23 · update #1
He says that he loved me and has missed me. But then he says he does not know what his intentions are now. He also told me in conversation that he did not know what his intentions where then. He says he did not have a clue about things then. (he was 24yrs old).
2007-03-14 02:29:07 · update #2
Sounds like he is playing you. Dont be fooled.
2007-03-14 01:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe just maybe he is telling the truth and he has never forgotten you. If he is serious about wanting you back he will break up with his girlfriend/wife, whatever. Don't be the "other woman" in this relationship. Make sure he has all ties broken first before you sleep with him. If you have already done the deed with him, tell him you wanted to do it for old time's sake but now you think that it's time he ended the other relationship before you go any further. Don't buy into his excuses of I'm going to ask her to leave next week, next month whatever. Also don't believe his excuses of she can't leave right now, she's financially dependent on me, she'd have no where to go, etc. etc. If this man is really serious about YOU then he will want no other. The girlfriend survived before she met him she can get along again. Trust me sister, I've heard em all. Don't take ANY excuse.
2007-03-14 02:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how tempting it must be,, but be strong.. Don't be the other women... If he truly does miss you and want you then he will end things with his live-in. Don't set yourself up to get hurt. I have been in the same type of situation, and I told him If what he says is so... then take care of things like a man. S--t or get off the pot, because I will not be the other women. He is still with his wife, and I am no longer wondering what his intentions were. Take control of the situation, and don't let him hurt you...Stay strong!
2007-03-14 02:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by hippychic3737 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to screw again. Don't fall for it. And if they have been together for 18yrs, she is his common law wife. Why break up their home?
2007-03-14 02:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by LADY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
common law wife
2007-03-14 01:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!!!
2007-03-14 02:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by Caroline N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋