Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

My little 9-year-old brother and I were in the car, just kind of joking around with each other..we didn't get in a fight or anything, but 10 minutes later, he started drawing pictures of my getting eaten by sharks, burning in a fire..just generally pictures of my dying. Then he threatened to stab me with a knife.
I didn't do anything at all to him..and we usually get along. I don't get what's going on with him!! He's been doing that a lot lately. I'm really trying to support him with school and help him out with his problems if he's willing to tell me about some of them, but he just seems to be really weird this past week. Any ideas? Could it be a bully at school or a girl, or what? How can I talk to him about this?
I know very well he would never want to talk to my mom or dad about anything, and I'm the only one he can trust, so I have to talk to him. I just don't know how, I've tried anything and everything possible! Have any advice?!

2007-03-09 15:20:44 · 13 answers · asked by Cosette 2 in Family

my friend is moving to a new school...shes my bestfren...but im not really good at saying goodbyes.....she likes the language japanese...so it would be great to say something nice in japanese...can you give me some words...like the example i gave you ..it can be different ...maybe more emotional...up 2 you...plz and thank you...

2007-03-09 15:20:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we hung out today for like 7 hours, and yesterday for like 4 hours, and right now are talking on msn.

he told his family about how he met this cool girl (me) and how we went out the last couple of times.

when he was leaving today, he gave me a really tight squeeze for a hug...

is this guy nuts about me?

2007-03-09 15:20:30 · 5 answers · asked by Lilly 1 in Singles & Dating

A lot of people are calling my girlfriend a slutfish. what should I do!!! It would b really nice if u would give me some advice.

2007-03-09 15:19:52 · 3 answers · asked by Mighitman 3 in Singles & Dating

there is this really cute guy in my class(7th grade) but i don't know if he thinks of me as just a friend or something else.

2007-03-09 15:19:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

As you might have read i just had my 3rd baby. Now when i was prego we didn't have sex alot. Seemed he wasn't really interested. I got very insecure because of this, but figured it was just because i was pregnant. Well now it is 7 mts after the birth of my son and we have been close all of 1 handful of times. The insecurity i felt when i was prego is 3xs worse. I haven't went back to my normal weight yet. I am like 30lbs heavier than i normal am. So of course i think he isn't attracted to me and thinks I am a fat. I tried to talk to him about this but it doesn't seem to get me anywhere. Our relationship is in big trouble and I don't know how to fix it. Anybody got some advice for me. I love my husband and he loves me but something got lost.

2007-03-09 15:19:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I found out the girl I have a crush on(BADLY) has a myspace. She has some photos of herself(nothing nasty), so I made it my screensaver because Im so in love. She has a beautiful face but Im mostly attracted to her kind unique personality.So is having her as a screensaver weird.

P.S I could send you her pic if you email me or ask.

2007-03-09 15:19:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok,im here with 2 little boys...and they won't go to sleep.What can i make them do to go to sleep?????

2007-03-09 15:19:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Always the first to say,"He/She's ugly!"..or "He's/She's good looking!"? And why is it always the people that brag about their looks that aren't verygood looking at all?....Does anyone else notice this?

2007-03-09 15:18:57 · 10 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 15:18:31 · 15 answers · asked by art_girlt 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you get a boys attention? I am not the prettiest girl in the world:), and I am not very skinny:(
So when I try to get his attention I'm always really selfcontious. I i'm in love with him and i don't know how to talk to him.
Puh-lease help me!
Thnx!

2007-03-09 15:18:28 · 2 answers · asked by GirlyGirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my girlfreind more than anything, I really do but I just dont feel good enough for her...

We been together a while and mates well befor then, we really are in love, she was planning a trip befor we got together and now its finnaly happend I really do miss her, I gota wait 3 months befor she returns and 1 month has passed, I miss her terribly but the main question or more point I have to state is.

Shes an amazing girl, smart, beautifull, we always take for hours and shes incredible in bed...

What I am trying to say is, I dont feel worthy of her... im just an average guy... used to be a player with the women but fell in love with her and would never look back.
I could imagine her with a guy whos really intelligent and talks really smart, I am not this guy... the only things I know is im good in bed and I love to chat for hours and have fun.

Id never cheat on her and ill always love her, I just want to know... if you think this is enough for true love =(

2007-03-09 15:17:45 · 12 answers · asked by 5789854322379 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so i'm dating this guy and it's being about 2 weeks i'm i'm his first gf and he's my second bf, and i really want to kiss him but i'm scared on how he'll react and i think i should kiss him though because he must be so nervous from the fact that i'm his first gf, i dont know why though i guess i just didnt build the courage to kiss him. what should i do???

2007-03-09 15:17:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just wondering, my hubby and i were married at 16 and 18 and still together after 35 years!

2007-03-09 15:17:08 · 22 answers · asked by gala w 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a rough idea for a story but I don't want to make it too... "inappropriate" or controversial. So, I'm asking you guys. Do you think it's appropriate for teens? Why or why not?

2007-03-09 15:17:01 · 8 answers · asked by Mimi 1 in Singles & Dating

he is a sweet, sweet guy... but he doesn't have any sense when it comes to girls!!!

How can I express that im worried about his girlfriend's influence on him without him gettin angry? she's really rude and kinda of sluttly... and he's a sweet, adorable dude... really like a little boy... except he's 16... lol. but she's got him doing stuff i really dont like! hehas skipped school twice to go hang out with her!!! He skipped CHURCH! to go hang out with her!!!

If his parents find out, he'll get grounded again and i wont be able to talk to him and i hate when that happens... but this girl is MEAN!!! one day i was joking around with him in a note and she read it and instead of simly asking him about it, she came and got all in my face about "why are you calling my boyfriend ugly? what is MY boyfriend any of YOUR business anyways?"

if that wasn't enough, he brought her to church... and she was rude to everyone!!!

She is going to ruin him and i know it.. i just want to help him!!

2007-03-09 15:16:56 · 6 answers · asked by janna w 2 in Friends

2007-03-09 15:16:53 · 5 answers · asked by zap 5 in Singles & Dating

I know that Christians should court and not really date. I like this guy who is not a Christian. He's a nice guy but I know it would be better if he's a Christian. He knows my belief about waiting until marriage before I have sexual intercourse. However, we did kiss before. I want to know what I should do. Should I try to pursue a relationship with him or should I just find another Christian?

2007-03-09 15:16:15 · 31 answers · asked by bluegirl5 4 in Singles & Dating

Well he has been teaching me lots of american history lately, cause he knows i will tested, when I marry him there in the States . And he knows that and he want me proud of America, the country he is in.

2007-03-09 15:15:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really wanted from this moment by shania twain ? any help would be great. Thank you

2007-03-09 15:15:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I feel If u have time to read, please answer, i confused :(

I always feel tingly inside when im around my crush. I get nervous and shy, im not the type of girl who would date such a popular guy in school. But he's more than that because i can see it in him.
Well okay, hes not that popular but hes well-known around school.

First, i like him. But then i dont, but then when i saw his myspace page and his song "dont matter" by Akon playing and what he wrote on his blog, it made me like him even more because of what he wrote, it was deep too. I can see hes deep and i like that. But then i sit next to him, i feel tingly and weird and i get all weird. Why?

But then, when he hangs around his friends, i dont like him but then i do. I dont want to ask him out because im not the type of girl to go and ask someone out. Im really pretty too, not to sound concieted. A lot of my friends said i have this extoic look in me lol. I dont know what to do?????

2007-03-09 15:15:10 · 1 answers · asked by confused aspen 1 in Singles & Dating

If you girls were smart, you'd be looking for guys your own age or younger. don't you ever think about the future when your 40 and he's 50 something and retired and broke and watches tv and drinks beer all day?

2007-03-09 15:14:46 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 15:13:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-09 15:13:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dad wants me to join the air force, but i dont want to,
he doesnt want to pay for my college
what should i do?

2007-03-09 15:12:54 · 9 answers · asked by wats good people 2 in Family

ive just realized im so immature when in comes to relationship, at 19 without a boyfriend, ( im not looking for one by the way) its just that do i just really want to be single or am i just to afraid and too pessimistic about men, that all i ever see is that when i have a boyfriend there is a tendency that we would do it and i can get pregnant, i have a lot of control for myself, but i will never know, so i refuse to meet men, and i just consider every man, including those whom i am attracted as impossible to fall in love with me, or not worth my time. cause i love being single.

2007-03-09 15:12:11 · 6 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

married to a pessimistic and very rigid man who is not willing to bend of make any changes at all to improve our relationship. he thinks everything is about him and he takes everything to heart. we are not even friendly with each other someone please help...........

2007-03-09 15:12:02 · 11 answers · asked by cuRiOuS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And when you asked her if she'd gotten to know he was married with kids she says,"I didn't ask and he didn't mention it.."......What would you be thinking?

2007-03-09 15:11:42 · 13 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-09 15:11:34 · 15 answers · asked by Ghost 2 in Singles & Dating

explain..details

2007-03-09 15:11:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating