he is a sweet, sweet guy... but he doesn't have any sense when it comes to girls!!!
How can I express that im worried about his girlfriend's influence on him without him gettin angry? she's really rude and kinda of sluttly... and he's a sweet, adorable dude... really like a little boy... except he's 16... lol. but she's got him doing stuff i really dont like! hehas skipped school twice to go hang out with her!!! He skipped CHURCH! to go hang out with her!!!
If his parents find out, he'll get grounded again and i wont be able to talk to him and i hate when that happens... but this girl is MEAN!!! one day i was joking around with him in a note and she read it and instead of simly asking him about it, she came and got all in my face about "why are you calling my boyfriend ugly? what is MY boyfriend any of YOUR business anyways?"
if that wasn't enough, he brought her to church... and she was rude to everyone!!!
She is going to ruin him and i know it.. i just want to help him!!
2007-03-09 15:16:56 · 6 answers · asked by janna w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
not that this is anyones business.. i just wanted to point out that he's not the normal sex-crazed teenage boy.. he's one of the few dudes in the entire world that wants to wait... and yeah... he had to go and tell me all this stuff.... made me feel like being reintroduced to my lunch at the time... i don't want to know this stuff , dude... but i know... just felt like pointing out that he's... not normal...
*i gotta go hurl now... its like thinking about your brother's sex life... you DONT WANT TO KNOW!!!!
2007-03-09 15:30:43 · update #1
Start off by telling him that you really care about him and you would hate to see him get hurt by anyone. Remind him that friends are there to help each other out and that you are there for him. Then pour your heart out to him! That's the only way you'll really get to his heart. Trust me, if he's as sweet and sensible as you say he is, he'll take your concern to heart.
2007-03-09 15:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by inquiring black beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.....to be a true friend to him it might mean being there for him at a distance...you know like kinda stay in the back for a minute. Being that he is 16 this is more than likely a faze and a just a lust thing for him he will soon tire of her once he sees her for what she truly is.......Sounds like he has some common sense right now he is not using the head that is on the top if you get me. You seem to care a great deal for him....and I am willing to bet that he will get it together before long...don't worry about him he will be ok if not for himself but because he has one thing that she doesn't have....a great friend like you..
2007-03-09 15:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by cuRiOuS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a sincere way, ask him what it is he sees in her? Tell him what's troubling you and why.. It is his choice in the end to stay with her or not but honestly.. the way you described her, I couldn't see them dating for too long. He's probably interested in her because she's the opposite from his own personality.
2007-03-09 15:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When guys are in their teens, they tend to think with the wrong head.
2007-03-09 15:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry he will soon see the light
2007-03-09 15:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by joan b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you just have to let people make their own mistakes.
2007-03-09 15:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋