Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

so I really like this guy, who used to have a huge crush on me about 6months- a year ago... i turned him down, twice. now he's growing on me, and i called him the other day to talk and chit chat, and he doenst tell him he has a gf, nor did i ask...but i later find out from someone else, that he is involved with a girl for about a few months, but hes not in love with her, and also his family doesnt like the girl at all....from what i hear, hes not serious about her, and i guess its not going to go anywhere....but well, to be hoenst im not too worried about the gf, bc i know we had a connection once before, but i never gave him a fair enough chance, and now i want to...how do i let him know im interested, without letting myself down in front of his gf situation? how do i know if hes intersted? should i call him and ask to meet up for a cup of coffee and see what he says? any good way to find out if hes still intersted or likes me at all? help... my heart has been hurting...

2007-03-09 15:30:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 15:30:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Their is this guy in my (7th) grade History/Art/Gym and my friend is in those classes with me too. She does not like the guy i lke but she doesent know i like him. We like to tease him but i dont tease him as much as she does, i dont care what she thinks. This boy talks to me and we always have playful fights. He always laughs and makes jokes around me (but not about me) Then one day in class this guy was like 'Chas likes you' And Chas was like 'No i dont!" But he didnt sound seroius. The guy that said he liked me is a BLABBER mouth and loves to spill secrets. So does he?

2007-03-09 15:29:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 15:29:57 · 10 answers · asked by Rich 3 in Singles & Dating

theres this girl that i like but she is two years younger than me. we both go to the same high school in florida. she is more a sort of a shy girl toward others but outgoing also. i like her persona. i like her but i don't know if she likes me. i'm afraid to ask because i don't know how she would react to it. she somewhat weird but i can handle it. i would like to know what signs should i look that she does that means that she likes me too.

2007-03-09 15:29:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I encountered my HS ex on my space we were togheter for about 9 months when i was 16-17 nothing sexual ever happenned during that time. Now we found each other again on my space he flirted with me for a while then I asked him what's up he said that since he saw me a year ago at a party he wanted to get with me again but that he has too much going on to start a relationship,but he likes me, he has 2 daughters but is single and lives alone. i don't know what his issues are. he apologized and said he won't flirt again because i told him it was confusing me. Now i have been without sex for a while. I saw him yesterday we were on my space and he told me to come with him to blockbuster i went down saw him and he gave me a bunch of hershey kisses and said they were kisses for me. he took me to eat something afterwards and i caught him looking at me. he calls me the name he used to call me when we were togheter when he writes. i want to do it but i don't want him to think bad of me, help!.

2007-03-09 15:29:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

These guys always assume the chick is willing to bare all without even getting to know them. DOES THAT EVER GUYS? I MEAN GIVE ME A BREAK!!

2007-03-09 15:29:20 · 1 answers · asked by Doc 2 in Friends

this guy broke up with me and i still like him and when i say like him i mean i like him more than i like anything. he broke up with me over myspace and i really like him and it is really hard to get over him. what do i do??

2007-03-09 15:28:30 · 11 answers · asked by u don't know me and never wi 1 in Singles & Dating

There's a guy at school who pretty much hated me last year. We were friends for a few months at the beginning of the last school year. But our relationship turned REALLY rocky after that. (It would take hours to explain it all.) I used to like him, but after everything went sour and he started hating me, I stopped. But he still thought I liked him, so I went up to him and let him know that he was a [insert curse word here] (This wasn't out of spite. I actually did hate him at the time for some of the things he did). So basically, up to the beginning of this school year, we both had an unwritten agreement that we hated each other.

I was chosen to participate in our school's speech contest (he was there, too), which took place today. They put all the contestants in the teacher's lounge to compete, and while we were waiting, we sat in the chairs set out for us. I was sitting next to him and (this was the first time I've said anything to him since the day that we met at common ground) I told him "good luck on your speech" and said it with a genuine smile. We had a conversation of a few sentances after that. And, surprisingly, he was actually treating me like a human being.

Later I was standing in the lunch line, and I asked him who he thought was going to win the speech contest. (it was going to be announced later that day) He said that he liked this one girl's (this wasn't any surprise, she was really amazing with her speech) and that he liked mine, too. (which is kind of weird because, honestly, I didn't do too well compared to everyone else)

From his reaction to me talking to him again, do you think he still hates me?

PS. In case anyone's wondering, the only reason I was compelled to actually be nice to him was because I just figured that there was no reason in wasting energy on hating someone. And, that, I would at least be happy with myself in knowing that I was able to do that.

2007-03-09 15:27:44 · 14 answers · asked by abcdefgh 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 15:27:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister is getting married in a few months and wants the bridesmaids to pay for their own dresses. She chose one that is very expensive, but the others have agreed to go with that particular one. I don't really mind paying, but just want to know what's usualy done. First time as a bridesmaid...

2007-03-09 15:27:15 · 24 answers · asked by Limoncello 3 in Weddings

Do girls think it's wierd for a guy, like their bf to like or adore their feet or at least find them very sexy, please be honest are feet wierd, because i find my gf's very fun and she loves having them pampered, how would u feel?

2007-03-09 15:26:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Could a girl not like a guy because she doesn't want to get hurt in case he's too good to be true, especially if boys have dated her friends and told them they loved them, had sex with them, and dumped them?

2007-03-09 15:25:57 · 17 answers · asked by Curios 2 in Singles & Dating

i just started this new shcool and everyone is really nice and all but there is this one guy that really got my eye he is soooooo cute!!! he is shy and so am i everyone says that he is perfect for me and i think so to exept i AM SOOOOOO SHY!!! i dont know how to talk to him with out "leading him on" (yet), plz help me!!!
do i wait for him to talk or do i talk omg i am dieing!!!!!!
plz help me!!! i really want to talk to hm
and also i always catch him glanceing at me and he smies when i look at him
p.s me and him had to sing together ( i sang and he played gutar) and he told me that i was a really good singer and looked good doing it i totally blushed and could barely utter out thank you! i know he likes me but how do i talk to him!!!

2007-03-09 15:25:52 · 6 answers · asked by joi 2 in Friends

2007-03-09 15:25:38 · 7 answers · asked by Sunny 2 in Singles & Dating

Which wedgie would hurt more? One with a string underwear (It goes right into your booty) or one with regular panties (Lots of fabric goes up...ouch!).

What do you think? And why?

Just for laughs. Don't take it seriously.

2007-03-09 15:25:22 · 4 answers · asked by Question 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay I like this guy and my friend has told him that I do but I think he thinks that we are joking!! I have wrote him 2 notes and he doesnt ever reply but he shows them to his friends and talks about it to my friends(but its good talk)! I have also attempted to talk to him 3x in the hall way and he talks but he doesnt say alot?!?! What do I need to do..? I dont wanna come off as a stalker or being annoying!! and I'm not tryin to be either one!! I wanna get to know him

2007-03-09 15:24:36 · 16 answers · asked by luh luh la reee! 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so Holden is a skater and he's so perverted... We're really good friends and I like him... So, we talk and talk and talk all the time and he treats me like I'm his wife and like he's the one who is the only one for me... I need to know if he likes me or not... I mean, guys, what do you think? Have you ever acted like that before? And I want to know what guys do when they like a girl...?

2007-03-09 15:24:25 · 5 answers · asked by ... 3 in Singles & Dating

I dont get it, every time an arguement happens, he automatically says then lets do what we need to do, we are both not happy..then he says he should of left when he had the chance..Does he really mean it? if so, wouldn't he of done it already? Why is the word divorce always thrown into the fight. I know I can be a pain, and a nag, im the first to admit that..but why does he always use the word divorce as if it is nothing. is this how he feels about our marriage? that its nothing?

2007-03-09 15:24:22 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am only 15 i have this boyfriend i have feelings for him but i dont know if he really loves me or not this is my third time to go out with him i have had sex with him and everything else but i dont know if he only loves me for the sex or not. he is kinda a player, he has cheated on me b4 and i was really mad and told myself i wouldnt do it again but i did wat should i do give him another chance we have been doing fine theses last few days but i dont know i dont want my heart broken again what should i do please i need advise??? do you think he will change??? i really hope so b/c i love him =[

2007-03-09 15:24:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in her eyes everything that i do has some hidden meaning
anything anything
lift weights, sleep early, sleep late, get home early, get home late, music i listen to , when i listen to it, the shows i watch...
help!!

2007-03-09 15:23:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-09 15:23:55 · 10 answers · asked by tere03 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just wanna see how guys like it better during sex...

2007-03-09 15:23:49 · 10 answers · asked by MEOW 3 in Singles & Dating

how do you get a man to back off when they are being to touchy? umm brock im talking to you!

2007-03-09 15:23:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, everytime i like a guy, i try very hard to get that guy to notice me. but when he starts to actually take an interest in me....i back away. why is that? i really need to know. what do you think? am i scared or something? i dont know. i know i shouldnt be asking complete strangers about how im feeling, i know it would be almost impossible for you to know.but i just want to see other perspectives. please answer. and please dont be sarcastic about it?

2007-03-09 15:23:36 · 6 answers · asked by Sabby 2 in Singles & Dating

the only one?

2007-03-09 15:23:25 · 7 answers · asked by believe me 3 in Singles & Dating

Can someone define the power of the "it"...when it comes to things happening in realtionships, marriage and what is this power that we have no control of - to decide for ourselves if something is to or is not to happen??

2007-03-09 15:22:59 · 4 answers · asked by RealEYES 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a 16 year old sophomore and she is a 15 year old freshmen. I have her in three of my classes and I only get to talk to her in one of them. I started flirting with her the very first day I met her (cuz i REALLY like her). A few days later, she started talking to me and always said " I hate you" but in a very girlie way. then, one day she said " I don't like you" in front of all her friends in the same tone. I completely ignored her for like about a week (I was hurt). So, I asked my friend to be by my side all the time so he can tell me what her reaction was while I ignored her, his answer was " whenever she looks at you, she ALWAYS has a BIG smile" then, I found her several times looking at me with a "BIG smile" in the three classes that i have with her! I find her starting at me and then her friends tease her alot when I'm around! but the only thing that stops me from asking her out is the "I don't like you" and the " I hate you" should I take the chance?

2007-03-09 15:22:39 · 9 answers · asked by Juanfox 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now, and at times I have trouble accepting his past. I just wanted to know if anyone else has had similar troubles, and if so, how did you deal with it?

2007-03-09 15:22:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I work a store in very busy neighborhood. There has always been this one girl who has always stuck out in my mind. She is everything, and I mean everything that I look for in a girl.She is the first girl that I can truely say, that my heart literally skips a beat when I see her walk through the door. We seem to click when having a conversation and her body language shows me that she is interested. She makes comments like about a concert shes going to and said I should get a ticket. I could talk to her for hours, and I think she likes talking to me. I used to see her only once every couple weeks, but now she is coming in every other day to talk and grab a bite.

The last comment she made to me yesterday as she was leaving made me wonder if she like me more like a friends. She said that she might stop by with her boyfriend who sill be visiting from the east coast. Is there a chance? Or did i read this all wrong? Maybe its a test to see if I'll act wierd. I dont know...HELP!

2007-03-09 15:20:55 · 10 answers · asked by Bill S 1 in Singles & Dating