There's a guy at school who pretty much hated me last year. We were friends for a few months at the beginning of the last school year. But our relationship turned REALLY rocky after that. (It would take hours to explain it all.) I used to like him, but after everything went sour and he started hating me, I stopped. But he still thought I liked him, so I went up to him and let him know that he was a [insert curse word here] (This wasn't out of spite. I actually did hate him at the time for some of the things he did). So basically, up to the beginning of this school year, we both had an unwritten agreement that we hated each other.
I was chosen to participate in our school's speech contest (he was there, too), which took place today. They put all the contestants in the teacher's lounge to compete, and while we were waiting, we sat in the chairs set out for us. I was sitting next to him and (this was the first time I've said anything to him since the day that we met at common ground) I told him "good luck on your speech" and said it with a genuine smile. We had a conversation of a few sentances after that. And, surprisingly, he was actually treating me like a human being.
Later I was standing in the lunch line, and I asked him who he thought was going to win the speech contest. (it was going to be announced later that day) He said that he liked this one girl's (this wasn't any surprise, she was really amazing with her speech) and that he liked mine, too. (which is kind of weird because, honestly, I didn't do too well compared to everyone else)
From his reaction to me talking to him again, do you think he still hates me?
PS. In case anyone's wondering, the only reason I was compelled to actually be nice to him was because I just figured that there was no reason in wasting energy on hating someone. And, that, I would at least be happy with myself in knowing that I was able to do that.
2007-03-09 15:27:44 · 14 answers · asked by abcdefgh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't hate u
2007-03-09 15:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by The Curse of Curves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he does not hate you still. I think that he recognizes what happened in the relationship and he understands that the way you two used to be will never be the same. However, just like you decided to get past that, maybe he has also matured and realized that he too had to grow up. There may be some feelings that he is not showing that may possibly still be there but I don't think he still hates you.
2007-03-09 15:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by mamashortydoowop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once again it proves the old ancient wisdom, which says "Treat the others as you would like to be treated". Although it never works.
P.S. By the way hating does not consume any human energy. You just hate.
2007-03-09 16:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer pay plenty interest to the Jonas Brothers, yet they do seem kinda poopy. Miley Cyrus sounds like a self-well-known total interior the butt who's in simple terms too grown. (Jonas Brothers seem too newborn like.) Who do I hate? Courtney Love is gross and ridiculous. of direction all of us hates Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie is disconnected from certainty too. lady Gaga sucks!!!! She's so gruesome and untalented. it is it! it is my answer! She had a track approximately dancing and she or he would have the capacity to't even pass. stupid.
2016-11-23 18:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a sand up girl to just look past the old things that had the tow of you acting crazy. When you say hate I don't see him hating you at all if he said anyting to you at all I'm sure that he does not hate you.
2007-03-09 15:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oddly enough I had a similar situation. He's probably done holding a grudge now and doesn't hate you. Everything is probably cool now, so just go with the flow.
2007-03-09 15:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by HoneyBrisk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that is how he feels too. Best advise let the past stay where it belongs... in the past. New year, new slate. You have a friend again, why question it?
2007-03-09 15:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by Unique Poet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there are any bad feelings there anymore. It's great that you reached out and mended the rift.
2007-03-09 15:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think he doesn't hate you . He is only upset with you on your relationship.
2007-03-09 15:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds liek he is willing to let bygones be bygones. Give him space and maybe youll be friends again.
2007-03-09 15:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋