My sister is getting married in a few months and wants the bridesmaids to pay for their own dresses. She chose one that is very expensive, but the others have agreed to go with that particular one. I don't really mind paying, but just want to know what's usualy done. First time as a bridesmaid...
2007-03-09 15:27:15 · 24 answers · asked by Limoncello 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Q. Do bridesmaids have to pay for their own dresses?
A. Bridesmaids are generally expected to pay for their own wedding-day ensemble (shoes and jewelry included). Talk to your bridesmaids individually about any financial concerns, and tactfully work out a solution that suits both of you -- maybe you will pay for half or all of the cost, or you can set up a payment plan. Above all, try to choose a dress that's reasonably priced, or consider letting your maids choose their own gown. Give some color/style requirements (i.e., black and ankle length), and ask them to show you the dress for final approval (just in case it's a little too risque for grandma's taste).
Found that somewhere on the internet. :)
2007-03-09 15:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by His Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The bridesmaids pay for their own dresses and a considerate bride picks an inexpensive dress. I have been in two weddings were the gowns cost more than $250, which is ridiculous. Speak up now, because you will NEVER wear the gown again.
2007-03-09 15:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bridesmaids typically pay for their own dresses. You may come across a bride or two that has either paid for, or contributed money towards the dresses if they were a bit spendy. Most brides however are very cost-conscious, caring people and pick out ensembles that can be worn later for other occasions that arent very expensive.
They sometimes pick mix and match separates without have a "uniform" for the outfit.
2007-03-09 15:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my experience bridesmaids have paid for their own dresses. I've never known anyone who ever had a bride that paid for them. I've been in 7 weddings and I bought all of them myself. That is too bad that it is so expensive though.
I got married last year and my bridesmaids paid for their own. Although I picked a dress that was reasonably priced plus they all got a discount due us all buying everything at the same store. (I let them help pick them out too) Maybe you will luck out and be able to get a discount somehow? Good luck!
2007-03-10 00:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by Chat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been a bridesmaid twice and I had to pay one of those times. Although I paid, I still had say in the dress. In the case where the bride paid, I had no say in the dress. So there you go~!
2007-03-09 15:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The bridesmaids always buy their own dresses. When i was married, I chose one that they would be able to wear again. It would be unusual for the bride to pay the expense.
2007-03-09 15:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by Loki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually the bridesmaids pay for their own. However I also chose an expensive dress, so I paid for them all when I was married. It just seemed wrong to ask my friends to pay.
2007-03-09 15:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by epoche m 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The bridesmaids pay for their own
2007-03-09 23:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bridesmaids paid for their own dresses. However, I was considerate of their budget. Sometimes the bride will pay for the dresses.
2007-03-09 15:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by I'm learning. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Typically the bridesmaids pay for their own dresses. I have been in one wedding where the bride's family paid for our dresses, BUT they were REALLY expensive, and the family was very wealthy.
2007-03-09 15:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋