so I really like this guy, who used to have a huge crush on me about 6months- a year ago... i turned him down, twice. now he's growing on me, and i called him the other day to talk and chit chat, and he doenst tell him he has a gf, nor did i ask...but i later find out from someone else, that he is involved with a girl for about a few months, but hes not in love with her, and also his family doesnt like the girl at all....from what i hear, hes not serious about her, and i guess its not going to go anywhere....but well, to be hoenst im not too worried about the gf, bc i know we had a connection once before, but i never gave him a fair enough chance, and now i want to...how do i let him know im interested, without letting myself down in front of his gf situation? how do i know if hes intersted? should i call him and ask to meet up for a cup of coffee and see what he says? any good way to find out if hes still intersted or likes me at all? help... my heart has been hurting...
2007-03-09 15:30:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with yourself and be an adult enough to respect the girlfriend and him and back off. Do not pursue someone who id attached. It is not right and if you were that girlfriend, you wouldn't like it. If he is interested and he is no longer dating someone, he will let you know.
If he is with someone and tries to get with you, he would be cheating on his girlfriend and that is morally wrong and you should not want to be with someone like that, connection or not.
If it is meant to be, it will happen. Don't go messing around where you shouldn't be. You know he has a girlfriend and you only heard through hearsay about how his relationship is with the girl. Don't make him leave the girl for you. It has to be his decision and you shouldn't make him be that deciding factor.
Trust that if it was meant to be, it will work out. If not, there will be someone else right around the corner for you who is not attached and who will love you with everything in their soul. You don't want someone who would be willing to cheat on you. If they would cheat on someone for you, they would cheat on you for someone else.
Best wishes to you.
2007-03-09 15:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you could always ask him to hang out with you for a day or a couple of hours and see what his response if he goes with you then maybe you have a chance if he says no then you know where you stand
2007-03-09 15:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by Juliaysha247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want a guy who is with a girl he doesn't like (or so the grapevine says).... and why can you not find a man of your own? You just want him because he has a GF now and you can't have him.
2007-03-09 15:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by AMoRous 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
forget about it.....for right now at least. you had your chance twice and he got turned down twice. so he moved on. if things don't work out with him and her, then consider, but don't try to come in between now that you finally are interested.
2007-03-09 15:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by obvious 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone dont break up their relationship let it go. If he is for you one day you to will be together. If you meddle in it there will be drama from his girl.
2007-03-09 15:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he already knows your interested. you will be hearing from him. if he is not in a serious relationship he will probably not mention it but he needs to break it off before he trys to see you.
2007-03-09 15:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you assert u do no longer wanna smash his courting yet you seem too be thinking approximately it. permit it go sister and locate your guy or woman guy or you will continually be the different female getting performed on the realm.
2016-09-30 11:23:40 · answer #7 · answered by faim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
worth a try, but u dont know for sure if he is not in love thats jus what someone else siad. so be ready for rejection ( just in case )
2007-03-09 15:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋