Okay I like this guy and my friend has told him that I do but I think he thinks that we are joking!! I have wrote him 2 notes and he doesnt ever reply but he shows them to his friends and talks about it to my friends(but its good talk)! I have also attempted to talk to him 3x in the hall way and he talks but he doesnt say alot?!?! What do I need to do..? I dont wanna come off as a stalker or being annoying!! and I'm not tryin to be either one!! I wanna get to know him
2007-03-09 15:24:36 · 16 answers · asked by luh luh la reee! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am going through a similar stage in my life. I find that getting too caught up in a guy/girl can make you come across as emotional and weird, I wold try to remain calm, stop worrying so much and be more like yourself. If you constantly worry, you will stop being yourself and come across as something else which is what you don't want! I did and now I'm paying for it, and I really wish I had kept my cool! Don't make my mistake and take it slow and be yourself. Friends are great starting point for relationships sometimes...so try your luck!
2007-03-09 15:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by TechPhox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont you see : he is not in to you, the message is clear leave him alone, yes you are being annoying, and i know its hard especially if you like him a lot, but guys just dont want women to be taking the first steps,( too much, information) too much attention, give him space, time,
dont talk to him or look at him for about 2 weeks and see what is his reaction, would something change?
2007-03-09 15:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone else or maybe if you think not keep your seat for the show thats about to happen this spring. Maybe it will excite some of your blond hormones
2007-03-09 15:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by AngelKidd+JeffKidd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've done about all you should do. You've made the attempt to get to talk to him by writing him the notes. If he's truely interested, he should approach you now.
2007-03-09 15:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've found in this situation once you back off and not ignore them but, just dont go to him all the time and be less talkative he'll be freaking out in his mind and do stuff to grab your attention and talk to you more.. he'll want u wen ur less available
2007-03-09 15:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by brittaboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl let me tell you what to do act like you don't see him trust me he will want to get to know you to you are trying to hard. And wear a cute little outfit that makes you look sexy.
2007-03-09 15:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by Dee Dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omgosh ive done that before!
u know wat happened.
i came out stupid.
just stop pushing urself to him.
befriend him like you would befriend any other.
don't show any motives of wanting to have him as more than a friend.
show interest about his ideas or watever.
but dont EVER put urself low.
coz later on, wen u move on, u'll feel bad and might even regret it.
2007-03-09 15:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by hilary_aaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that u are upset he will ask u why u say because someone said that u think I'm stalking u .if he asked who ?
u ask so u really think iam stalking u .i think u can complete from here
2007-03-09 15:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by Shark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to try that hard then he's not worth your time. Find someone who won't give you the run around.
2007-03-09 15:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by HoneyBrisk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dear-- but I don't think he is interested. Time to look around some more.
2007-03-09 15:28:38 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋