i just started this new shcool and everyone is really nice and all but there is this one guy that really got my eye he is soooooo cute!!! he is shy and so am i everyone says that he is perfect for me and i think so to exept i AM SOOOOOO SHY!!! i dont know how to talk to him with out "leading him on" (yet), plz help me!!!
do i wait for him to talk or do i talk omg i am dieing!!!!!!
plz help me!!! i really want to talk to hm
and also i always catch him glanceing at me and he smies when i look at him
p.s me and him had to sing together ( i sang and he played gutar) and he told me that i was a really good singer and looked good doing it i totally blushed and could barely utter out thank you! i know he likes me but how do i talk to him!!!
2007-03-09 15:25:52 · 6 answers · asked by joi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask him how long he's played guitar? This question can strike up a conversation. I would take it a step further and say that you have always wanted to learn how to play the guitar and if he knows of a good teacher. You never know; if he likes you, he could probably say that he can teach you. Guys love it when they can show a girl how to do something, I guess it boost their ego. I use to like this guy who was into playing pool. So I acted as if I wanted to learn and of course he offered to show me. After a couple of lessons he asked me on a date. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2007-03-09 15:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by Little D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try to talk to him like you talk to any of your guy friends. Find something you guys have in common, like music, and compliment him on his guitar playing and take a general interest in what he likes. Guys love girls to ask them questions, because it makes it easy for them to talk to you.
Before you approach him, think of 1 compliment and 3 questions about that compliment that you can ask him. This will help your shyness by giving you a game plan. Smile and encourage him to talk more about himself. Talk to him for a couple minutes, then say you have to go talk to another friend or get to class. By making it a goal to approach him once a day for a couple minutes, you (and hopefully him) will get over your shyness with each other.
Good Luck! ;-)
2007-03-10 00:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by Amber20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and start talking. You'll regret it if you don't. Tell him that you think he's a good guitar player, or talk about something else that you both have in common.
Good luck!
2007-03-09 23:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by MrMarblesTI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
j/walk up to him and talk to him..if he said you were a good singer then tell him hes good at guitar or something. j/make small talk for a while then lead into something else..and dont forget to flirt a little bit lol
2007-03-09 23:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he does like you, you don't have to tell him your crushing hard just let. Just make small talk and the rest will hopefully follow.
2007-03-09 23:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by HoneyBrisk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see him looking at you, just wave, smile and say HI!
2007-03-09 23:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by Sara J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋