2007-03-09 15:30:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope and if he told you that...dumb his assets....
2007-03-09 15:39:55 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your body belongs to you and nobody else. And if your fiance really loves you then they will respect your decision to wait. Sex can be a beautiful thing when to people are willing and love each other ,but when one is unsure and /or is being pushed into it in the long run it will cause nothing but regrets and arguments. Love doesnt have to be physical, its more than that. its a understanding of each other and a deep almost spiritual feeling. If you want to prove to your fiance that you love them all you have to do is listen to them, talk to them, show them attention and give yourself to them emotionally...physically is definatly not a have to thing!!!
and it seems that if youve waited this long and have such high morals then he can surely wait until after your married gurl!!!
2007-03-09 23:48:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jools 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. You tell him you'll have sex with him when it's right for you, not him. Love has nothing to do with sex, other then to make it better. And sex is not a way to "prove" anything.
2007-03-09 23:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by nick_nunya2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO. It sounds like you were trying to wait until the actual wedding and if he's your fiance he should love and respect your desicion. Besides he knew what you were about before hand and for him to try and pressure you knowing that you want to wait then he needs to take a cold shower or something. I'm glad to see that you are standing up for your morals. Good luck
2007-03-09 23:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The more the better. Each time you do, it will make him a little more sure that you truly love him. Without that, he probably thinks that you are just yanking his chain, and I wouldn't be suprised if the was thinking about leaving you. How can he possibly feel that you are willing to give yourself to him, if you're showing him so clearly that you aren't?
2007-03-10 01:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by T.Wang! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you do not. This isn't a reason to have sex. You proved your love by becoming engaged to him and promising to marry him.
2007-03-09 23:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you do not. Believe me, once you've been married for a while you will see that sex and love really don't have anything much in common with each other.
2007-03-09 23:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by alanpvr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!! Don't ever think you have to use sex to prove love.
2007-03-09 23:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, but it helps. If you're still leery about it, explore other ways to have fun with him without doing the nasty; check out "The Joy Of Sex" or other books. They usually illustrate ways to get around the whole sex thing without losing any of the fun.
2007-03-09 23:33:46 · answer #9 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no if he loves and respects you then he can wait. You don't need to do this to prove it to him. If you're doing this just to prove that you love him then maybe you shouldn't be with this guy.
2007-03-09 23:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by Scpwnz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. If you are not comfortable with it...don't. If he isn't comfortable waiting...he should move on. Don't let him push you into something you aren't ready or willing to do. Let HIM prove HIS love by NOT pushing you.
2007-03-09 23:34:18 · answer #11 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋