I love my girlfreind more than anything, I really do but I just dont feel good enough for her...
We been together a while and mates well befor then, we really are in love, she was planning a trip befor we got together and now its finnaly happend I really do miss her, I gota wait 3 months befor she returns and 1 month has passed, I miss her terribly but the main question or more point I have to state is.
Shes an amazing girl, smart, beautifull, we always take for hours and shes incredible in bed...
What I am trying to say is, I dont feel worthy of her... im just an average guy... used to be a player with the women but fell in love with her and would never look back.
I could imagine her with a guy whos really intelligent and talks really smart, I am not this guy... the only things I know is im good in bed and I love to chat for hours and have fun.
Id never cheat on her and ill always love her, I just want to know... if you think this is enough for true love =(
2007-03-09 15:17:45 · 12 answers · asked by 5789854322379 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I just want her to be happy and get what she truely deserves, ill love her better than anyone...
I know id never want another man to have her because, I just feel like they wouldnt know how amazing she truely is, she really is beautifull inside and out. I just hope I am good enough for her.
2007-03-09 15:23:17 · update #1
The truth is I dont actually have low self esteem ive never felt like this befor, shes just so amazing she treats me amazing and I just hope I can be as good to her.
I surprise her, tell her I love her, spend about 3-6 hours in bed with her till were both physically exausted (what I learned from being a player) haha
We talk for hours on end and I do think she is truely happy as am I, but I just feel like I want to do more and more!
Shes like my best freind and amazing lover =)
2007-03-09 15:31:21 · update #2
I dont actually know what im trying to say haha!
Shes such a nice loving careing and beautifull girl who is alot amazing in bed = every guys fantasy
I just think I need to say this haha, I am so in love and I know she is so in love with me 2, ive never ever felt like this befor!
God I love her
2007-03-09 15:39:54 · update #3
The reason why you feel like u arent good enough for ur gf is that u arent confident in urself at all. u shud learn to appreciate ur self, and know that if u arent such an amazing person then why would ur gf fall in love with you? she obviously isnt interested in guys who only talk smart, but she loves ur sense of humor and ur ability to talk non stop for hours. being with someone isnt only about thinking if we match because of what she is doing in life. but how u really feel in ur heart, and it looks like u trully do love ur gf, and if u want this doubtness to go away i suggest u talk to her, and call her whenever u miss her, just hearing her voice will help you. remember dont ever think that u arent good enough for her, ur gf just loves u for being who u are. good luck!
2007-03-09 15:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds to me like your a great guy to change your life for her. I personally don't think your not good enough for her and I'm sure if she loves you that she will say the same thing If she doesn't then maybe you shouldn't be with her. If you think you lack in some areas then like intelligence or smartness then go to school show her you will do anything to prove you love her and will be able to take care of her. Make your life better if you think it's not good enough. But do it for you mostly not just her. Do it so you can succeed no matter if she was in your life or not. And have faith in your love for her and the love she has for you.
2007-03-09 15:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going to give you the best answer that i think may help you. Just because you don't think your good enough for her, she may think the complete oppisite. you sound like you love her alot, after all you did say it a alot of times in your entry and i think that's all that important love her, care for her, and just have the best relationship that you can with eachother, but maybe you should also talk to your girl about this to if you love her as much as you say you do, you should have communcation and tell her how you feel and if she tells you she doesn't care about your apperance, or your personality. as long as you love her and treat her right. then that means you are the right person for her even if you don't think so.
2007-03-09 15:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's more than enough for true love. You say that you don't think your worthy of her, but is there someone else you would want to take your place? I'm sure theres not. Just be grateful and treat her the way she's suppose to be treated. Love her. If she's not happy with that, then she's crazy!
2007-03-09 15:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetpeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is definitely enough for true love.
Your only problem here is your low self-esteem. Get to work on that. You have alot to offer. Do some self-evaluation, find your strengths and build them up even more. Be the man you feel she deserves, and you will be the man she wants.
Go for it!!
2007-03-09 15:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most certainly - it sounds like you have all the best qualities except a really great self-esteem! Get to work on that - and you never know, maybe she feels she isn't good enough for you, either?
2007-03-09 15:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by trillian 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
genuine love is almost a ghost, all and sundry talks approximately it yet few have actual seen it. yet i my chum have seen it, i've got seen it come from myself. genuine love is genuine, this is real to those that have self belief it. genuine love is something you do by ability of decision, no longer something you "fall into." you're precisely as plenty in love with somebody as you paintings at. Love is while, by ability of your individual unfastened will, you seek for each and all of the very desirable for somebody, and seek for to offer and make a contribution into that life as much as you are able to. the only way for romance to final a life-time is which you will make it paintings, sooner or later (on occasion one 2d) at a time. Love isn't magic; you ought to paintings at it. you agree on if it lasts, and it could. yet you won't understand that, Love isn't meant to be understood, its like a language spoken by ability of all and sundry, yet understood using ability of your coronary heart. i'm hoping which you do locate it sooner or later, it won't look genuine now, yet then you definately've in no way had a gf.
2016-12-14 15:17:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it could be, but you have to get that chip off your shoulder that your not good enough for her. Women like confidence in a man, and she'll think she can walk all over you. Your just as good as anyone else!!!
2007-03-09 15:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It possibly could be. You should not put yourself down like that. If you feel that she is into you then just go with the flow. Maybe she really likes you the way you are so don't fret.
2007-03-09 15:28:03 · answer #9 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is more than enough.
Dedicate your life to making her feel loved and special and she will never leave you either.
2007-03-09 15:23:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋