ive just realized im so immature when in comes to relationship, at 19 without a boyfriend, ( im not looking for one by the way) its just that do i just really want to be single or am i just to afraid and too pessimistic about men, that all i ever see is that when i have a boyfriend there is a tendency that we would do it and i can get pregnant, i have a lot of control for myself, but i will never know, so i refuse to meet men, and i just consider every man, including those whom i am attracted as impossible to fall in love with me, or not worth my time. cause i love being single.
2007-03-09 15:12:11 · 6 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to get out more, and just talk to guys not date them but talk to them. Im 18 and not looking for a relationship, but that doesnt mean I wont tlalk to girls though. Talk to guy so you can be mature when the time is right to be in a relationship
2007-03-09 15:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you said "I love being single", right? Well, in that case, wouldn't it be ambivalent to put yourself "on the market"? There's nothing wrong with enjoying your freedom. Take the time to get grounded, know what you want in a mate before you even think of putting yourself out there! I think you deserve a medal. Too many women nowadays get involved because they think that's what they're supposed to do. How stupid is that? Figure yourself out, why you do what you do, what your values are, where you want to be in 10 yrs., THEN add to your life...when YOU are ready, sounds to me like you know you're not. And I think that's a good start!I wish I had done it when I had the chance. ;-) Be Happy!!
2007-03-09 23:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then, what's the problem? If your not looking and enjoy being single, then don't worry . When the time is right and the right one comes along, you'll know it, and won't have to ask yourself these questions.
2007-03-09 23:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me too...i am a 18 year old guy...and all my relationships are real short...but i am usually not the one to break it off...lol...i like being single and not having to worry about the pain in the *** girlfriend..but i also like to have someone to turn to and someone to actually sorta love...ya know..
2007-03-09 23:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me it is better to let the man find you and make them really have to work for your time
2007-03-09 23:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by funkmasterblack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the healing is best done by yourself, grow up
2007-03-09 23:15:56 · answer #6 · answered by ssalas928 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋