Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

My boyfriend of over a year still talks to his ex (they were together for about 2 years)... they broke up because she cheated on him with his friend. To me, this would mean complete cutoff of the relationship. I have been cheated on and have no desire to speak to my ex. Is he more forgiving than I am? I trust him completely but I just think it is weird that he would want to remain in contact with her. What do you think?

2007-03-08 03:51:14 · 7 answers · asked by somany_questions 1 in Singles & Dating

Everytime when I get a call from him, i tell him about what's happening to me and he don't care.

2007-03-08 03:51:11 · 8 answers · asked by Inneed 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 03:51:08 · 20 answers · asked by topbinus 1 in Family

I'm planning a well-deserved vacation to Costa Rica with a small group of friends. We have another friend who would probably like to go, but he makes me uncomfortable and guarded because his boundries are a little fuzzy. Unfortunately, it's not as simple as talking to him; no amount of explaining makes any difference. However, I do consider him to be a good friend in most contexts.

My other two friends (both male) with whom I've been planning the vacation recognize the problem and tell me that the decision on whether to invite him is entirely up to me. Although I don't want to spend my whole vacation trying to fend him off every time I put on a bikini, it is a group vacation and the others would probably like it if he came. I would also hate to hurt his feelings (the same dilemma came up a few years ago), but it is his fault that there is an issue at all.

2007-03-08 03:51:00 · 10 answers · asked by greensong 2 in Friends

what would you do if your best friend stopped talking to you??

2007-03-08 03:50:44 · 25 answers · asked by anu 1 in Friends

2007-03-08 03:50:16 · 3 answers · asked by Romeo (The Original) 2 in Singles & Dating

is it just me or does anyone else out there get on their own nerves and why?

2007-03-08 03:49:59 · 32 answers · asked by oldybutgoody 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 03:49:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

OK.My sister is 20 and she has a bf.Im 12 and im not allowed to have a bf.We already said no to--
1.Movies,Reason-There isnt 1 that my sister wants to go see that is apropriate 4 me!
2.Shopping,Reason-Were are going shopping Saturday with my mom 2
3.Beach,Reason-I already have a bad sunburn sooo...NO!
Plz help!

2007-03-08 03:49:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been together four almost fou years now and living together for two. Just last week things all went down hill. He said that our relatioship just wasn't the same. He still loves me but he's not happy...he said he needed a break, feels like he needs change....so he's staying at his sisters now....and he;s got 1 week to figure out what he wants....I've been talkign to his sister and she said that he said it's very different living without me, but he feels like it just right for now....apparently he was seriously considering asking me to marry him and I think he might have scared himself...I just can't stop asking if he'll come back to me....what should I do? Do I just give him his space?

2007-03-08 03:49:44 · 6 answers · asked by wilsonfromthefrew 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy and i started having sex a couple days ago and it was only about five minutes into it when we stopped because we thought someone was coming in. he was a virgin and he wants to know if that counts or not? what do you think?

2007-03-08 03:49:20 · 8 answers · asked by Rita 2 in Singles & Dating

i was walking out one day and i saw my wife squatting on the e-brake in the middle of the center console, and i turned away and acted like i didnt see, should i confront her about it, or what should i do?

2007-03-08 03:49:13 · 10 answers · asked by Hank Kill 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-08 03:49:11 · 1 answers · asked by mother hen 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

So i get attached WAY to easily, and i want to be stronger and try to be but at the same time you are suppose to "be yourself"! But myself is very insecure and lonely...My last relationship lasted 3 weeks and left me broken. I just want a guy that i can trust and won't use me! I am attractive but shy and find it so hard to date cuz am nervous every date i go on that i will say or do the wrong thing!

2007-03-08 03:49:08 · 4 answers · asked by shine_on 3 in Singles & Dating

I have agmae that everyone can play...it's kinda like a confession...but nobody knows who you are...Can you tell me a secret that no one knows about you? Let's be serious though...

2007-03-08 03:49:08 · 4 answers · asked by ashley32754 2 in Friends

We have been married for almost five years. He has two children with her, and out of the blue the other night, he called me by her maiden name. He never calls me by my maiden name and I have never heard him refer to her by her maiden name. I wasn't really angry until he got defensive about it instead of apologizing. Am I wrong to be so upset by this? He claims it was just an accident, but that hasn't been her name in almost 20 years, so why would that name even have crossed his mind?

2007-03-08 03:49:02 · 20 answers · asked by Tangled Web 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-08 03:48:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year, he has 2 kids , they're great kids and i understand his kids come first no matter what, the only thing that bothers me is the fact that he still has to talk to his ex like when they call so he can talk to the kids she would start talking to him , he told me that they have to maintain a relationship because otherwise is not fair to the kids but at the same time this is hard for me i tried so many times not to let it bother me but still does.

2007-03-08 03:48:11 · 6 answers · asked by Nashira 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-08 03:47:06 · 7 answers · asked by Romeo (The Original) 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this really nice guy. We ended up in bed. He was actually quite nice and we had a great evening. Anyway, when he was leaving he said 'that was good!'. I said 'actually that was, for a first time.' THEN I realized that could imply that I expected a relationship or something, so I covered up by saying 'or an only time or whatever this was, that was good'. Then I laughed and hugged him goodnight. He looked at me right in the eye with a weird look and said "I will talk to you tomorrow'

bad cover up or good cover up


p.s. Please don't critisize me. I am in my 30's and haven't had any in 2 years! I needed that night!

2007-03-08 03:46:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 03:45:28 · 10 answers · asked by ♥♥♥Miracle♥♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

i think he sometimes tries to flirt but i'm not sure .

2007-03-08 03:45:03 · 10 answers · asked by yasi 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife decided she needed some time and space to figure some things out a little over a week ago. She doesn't want any form of communication. We have agreed to talk about once a week on a set day but I don't think that is going to solve anything. I know I am not perfect but it kind of feels like she doesn't want to work on anything. It is very hard to stop talking to her when we used to talk about 20 times a day. She was/is my best friend and I just miss her so much. I really think she has some depression issues but she won't talk to anyone in depth about what is going on. We have been together for about 10 years but have only been married for 4. Any suggestions?

2007-03-08 03:45:00 · 14 answers · asked by blingblinger 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I cant stand that guy, he just burn's me right up, he's always sleeping with my wife and my kids call him dad, I just can't take this crap anymore.

2007-03-08 03:44:37 · 28 answers · asked by GarbageMan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-08 03:43:49 · 5 answers · asked by WWW.MYHIBRID.COM 3 in Singles & Dating

We are planning a private ceremony in a couple of months and need a non-Christian officiator who works for cheap. Does anyone know of one? Or how do I find one? I have searched the internet, but get very few results.

2007-03-08 03:43:19 · 9 answers · asked by MoonWomyn13 1 in Weddings

guys what do you prefer?
girls what do you prefer, being a bit to skinny or being a bit to big?
xxx

2007-03-08 03:42:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Double fudge brownies? I think she changed the mix or something, they taste chalky. Blech. There's a whole tray on the counter. I'm gonna be sick.

2007-03-08 03:42:08 · 22 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 18 years old and I want to move out, but im still in high school. Is there anything my mom can do to stop me from leaving?

2007-03-08 03:42:02 · 13 answers · asked by misty g 1 in Family

As in... i roughly know that men kiss on the ladies cheek... but is it merely just touching cheek to cheek, or lips physically kiss the cheek?...
Both on left and right side or on either side...
i need help as in i just met a nice friend who is from new zealand... and i need to know:
1) How he would greet me?
2) How i should return the greeting?
Thank you ^_^

2007-03-08 03:41:55 · 9 answers · asked by Daffodil 3 in Singles & Dating