So i get attached WAY to easily, and i want to be stronger and try to be but at the same time you are suppose to "be yourself"! But myself is very insecure and lonely...My last relationship lasted 3 weeks and left me broken. I just want a guy that i can trust and won't use me! I am attractive but shy and find it so hard to date cuz am nervous every date i go on that i will say or do the wrong thing!
2007-03-08 03:49:08 · 4 answers · asked by shine_on 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to have patience. When you first get with a guy, i understand you wanna spend alot of time with him, but this is a turn off. It makes you look to insecure. If you back off a little and let him come to you its better. I have found men like a challenge. If you make your self available to him 24-7 he will get bored and there is no challenge. Sounds kinda stupid but its true. Try it with your next guy, i bet he will come to you more. And i think you should work on your confidence. If you are more confident in your self you will be ok with being single.
2007-03-08 04:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by Randa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If three weeks gets you upset enough to be "broken", you have some non-trivial emotional problems.
Get help.
And if you're that clingy, you're using the guy. So of course he'll use you too.
2007-03-08 13:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys dont care that ur nervous, im guessing the guy u would date is just as nervous, but u noo just be ur self...any questions just email me
2007-03-08 11:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by SpecialK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel like that to
2007-03-08 11:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋